Self-care is giving the world the best of you instead of what’s left of you. – Unknown Author
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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Let’s discuss some ways that you can improve yourself through self-care. So, what is self-care? According to The Self-Care Solution written by Suzy Reading, self-care can be defined as any life-giving activity that restores, sustains or improves your health. Simply put, self-care is nourishment for your entire soul, mind, body and spirit. Self-care can also help people become the best version of themselves when they learn effective ways to navigate through life.
WHY SELF-CARE IS IMPORTANT
As we go through life, all of us have experienced stress on some level one way or another. It’s so important that you have the necessary tools to help you promote healing and cultivate clarity in your life as you experience stressful situations or any kind of life changing event.
Suzy Reading provides 3 reasons why self-care is important:
• Stress is not going to go away. Stress is a normal part of life. In fact, life would be boring without some stress to keep us on our toes, right?
• Stress has a cumulative effect. Stress can add up very quickly so make sure to plan for regular pressure releases throughout your day. For example, go for a walk, do a stretch routine or meditate.
• Too much stress is dangerous. It’s a fact that too much stress makes us ill and greatly diminishes our ability to enjoy life.
HOW DOES SELF-CARE HELP?
Self-care is important. When you take time to replenish your spirit, it allows you to serve others from the overflow. You cannot serve from an empty vessel. – Eleanor Brown
Suzy Reading provides ways that self-care helps us throughout life:
• Self-care helps you cope with life changing events, such as an illness, the loss of a loved one, depression, parents adjusting to life with a newborn, etc.
• Self-care helps us recover after experiencing life changing events, such as the loss of a loved one, the loss of a job, divorce, etc.
• Self-care offers us a protective function, forming a buffer against future stress. If you are able to prepare yourself before a life changing event occurs, then do it. For example, before the birth of a child, the finalization of an adoption, getting married, starting college, or moving into a new home.
• Self-care helps us to flourish as individuals and to become the best version of themselves. For example, you may be striving to become a better parent, a better spouse, in search of a new career, or preparing for retirement.
SIGNS THAT BURNOUT MAY BE OCCURRING IN YOUR LIFE
It’s important to note that prolonged stress can result in a state of burnout. According to Suzy Reading, burnout is characterized by exhaustion, manifesting itself emotionally, mentally, and physically. It’s an overwhelming state, when you feel like you have nothing left to give and you just can’t ignore your body’s plea for a break.
Here’s some signs that burnout may be occurring in your life:
• Extreme tiredness, trouble sleeping despite feeling fatigued, difficulty switching off and a sense of overstimulation.
• A general suppression of the immune system evidenced by frequent bouts of minor ailments such as cold sores, headaches or common colds.
• Muscular aches, pains, and physical tension.
• Low mood, suppressed appetite, poor concentration or diminished enjoyment from life. A sense of feeling stuck and overwhelmed.
• Anxiety, anger, reactivity and irritability.
Believe it or not, self-care will help you heal and overcome burnout. If you’re feeling overwhelmed with life’s events, prioritize soothing activities and choices that restore balance to your life.
Here’s some examples of soothing activities and choices that restore balance to your life:
• Go for a walk around your neighborhood or in a local park.
• Exercise does the whole body good.
• Do some yoga poses.
• Practice meditation or spend time in prayer.
• Read an inspirational or motivational book.
• Take a warm bath to help you relax.
• Spend some time journaling or coloring.
• Just sit still with your eyes closed and practice breathing techniques.
SELF-CARE CHECKLIST
She made a promise to herself to hold her own well-being sacred. – Unknown Author
Today, I …
• Read God’s Word and Prayed
• Spent time in Meditation
• Exercised for at least 30 minutes
• Read an Inspirational Book
• Complimented Someone
• Found Enjoyment in Life by doing Fun activities
TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS
Journal Prompts are given to inspire you to write freely about your life and to improve yourself. Take time to write down your goals. Then, write about how you feel after you’ve nourished yourself with self-care activities so you can see what is working for you. Use your journal to connect the dots between choices and outcomes. Feel free to include anything that inspires you, such as quotes, pictures, positive words, etc.
• When was the last time you felt fully alive?
• What was the last self-care thing you did?
• What is one thing you need to let go?
• What book are you reading right now?
• What do I want more of in my life?
• What is one way you like to recharge your energy levels?
• What is holding you back from improving your lifestyle?
• What would you like to change in your daily routine?
• What brings you joy every day?
• What causes you anxiety?
• How can I honor my body on today?
• What is your vision for the next 3 months?
As you can see, self-care is not selfish, but it is necessary to help keep us calm throughout life. Give yourself permission to take time out for you. From time to time, make an appointment with yourself. Don’t wait for good moment, they rarely come. Plan your time and fill it with something that nurtures your head, heart, and body. Peace and blessings!
Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!
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This is such a beautiful post! I especially love the journal prompts. Thank you for inspiring me to do a little more self-love acts x
Lydia, thank you for reading my blog and writing such encouraging words.
I really need to start stressing less and figure out an easy self care routine. This is such a thorough post that has emphasized to me how important it is to actually stop and take care of myself!!
Menzi, sometimes this is not an easy process. Find something you will enjoy and just do it.
I really like the idea of having a self- care check list! Using a journal to document your reflection and steps toward “replenishing our spirit” is also such a great suggestion. I am glad I read this. Thank you for sharing. I am definitely working on finding ways to indulge in self-care as I too feel it is imperative to interact with love and compassion for others.
There’s a quote that reads: Remember to take care of yourself. You can’t pour from an empty cup.
AMEN to the journal prompts! I started doing it years ago via a leadership camp i attended some years in a row, and it’s helped me greatly recently. Thanks for sharing!
– Sugi Says
Ashley, I agree – Journal Prompts will help you in so many ways if you commit to the process and practice daily.