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Transitioning Back to Greatness

LaPorterNovember 17, 2019Leave a Reply

Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new. – Brian Tracy

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Well, it is official after seven years of working part-time hours, I have accepted a full-time secretary position in an educational setting. I am excited and nervous about this transition. Even though I know this is a great opportunity, I feel my emotions and mind jumping all over the place. Simply put, I feel myself out of balance.

When we find ourselves out of balance, our lives may include challenges, such as burnout, health problems, financial distress, emotional eating, isolation, and relationship issues just to name a few. Don’t worry, take a deep breath, and know that it happens to the best of us. It’s important for you to know that transitioning back to greatness and regaining balance in life is the key to your peace and happiness.

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THE CHARACTERISTICS OF EMOTIONAL BALANCE

Life is a balance between holding on and letting go. – Rumi

While you’re traveling along your journey in life, it is important to understand the basic characteristics of maintaining emotional balance. After all, the characteristics of emotional balance allows you to participate in life to the fullest extent possible.

Here’s a list of the characteristics of emotional balance:

• A sense of contentment.

• A passion for living and enjoying life to the fullest.

• The ability to deal with stressful situations.

• The flexibility to learn new things and adapt to change.

• The ability to bounce back from adversity.

• A healthy level of self-confidence and self-respect.

• The ability to build and maintain fulfilling relationships.

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EXAMPLES YOUR LIFE IS OUT OF BALANCE

To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life. – Elizabeth Gilbert

Moreover, to overcome this difficult challenge in life, you must first acknowledge that your life is out of balance. Don’t be afraid to address anything in your life that do not align with your lifestyle and beliefs.

Here’s some examples you may encounter when your life is out of balance:

• You find yourself reacting to everything in a negative way.

• You have unidentified and reoccurring health issues, such as fatigue or stress.

• You feel like every little thing is an emergency in your mind.

• You may be too tired to recognize or enforce your own emotional, personal, and professional boundaries.

• You constantly question your decisions in life and worry about everything.

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WAYS TO REGAIN BALANCE IN YOUR LIFE

Remain calm in every situation because peace equals power. – Joyce Meyer

Finally, once you’ve identified that there is an issue with your life, it is important to regain balance in your life by any means necessary.

Here’s some ways you can help regain balance in your life:

• Slow down. It is important to establish control over your time by slowing down.

• Live in the now. The fewer thoughts you have about your past or future, the more you’ll be present to your own inner spirit. Be realistic and determined all at the same time.

• Let go of control. Allow things to progress at their own pace so that you develop trust in the flow of life.

• Break old patterns. Simply breaking old habits one by one will begin to erode negative thought patterns and beliefs.

• Explore triggers to emotional highs and lows. It is important to avoid problems by identifying the root cause of your emotional challenges.

• Nurture yourself. Find time to be relaxed and happy throughout your day. For example, try meditation, getting a massage, reading a book, spending time in nature.

• Be determined to go back. Don’t make excuses. Instead, make a plan for returning to the workforce.

SELF-REFLECTION & JOURNAL PROMPTS

You have been assigned this mountain to show others it can be moved. – Unknown Author

Journaling is a powerful way to process events in your life, build self-awareness, get more clarity, and keep yourself on track. Journaling also allows for past reflection, future insight, and present surrender. Now, close your eyes and clear your mind. Grab your pen/pencil. Open your journal or notebook. Ready, set, write!

• How does journaling help to improve your mental state?
• What is the biggest life lesson you’ve learned to date?
• What do you love about life?
• How can you incorporate self-care into your daily routine?
• What is something that you’ve overcome in life?
• How has journaling helped to improve your spiritual well-being?
• What do I need to mute in my life in order to hear God’s voice?
• What can you do today to help yourself get better aligned spiritually?

When you have made the decision to embrace life, regain balance, and transition back to greatness, you will focus on making your own happiness and peace of mind a priority. So, what are you waiting for? Don’t wait. Start today.

TIME TO SHARE & COMMENT

It all begins in your mind. What you think, you become. – Unknown Author

Let’s talk. When was the last time you lost your life balance? How do you regain balance? Have you found yourself transitioning back to greatness? Share your thoughts in the comments section. I look forward to reading your feedback!

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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Trust Yourself Whole Again

LaPorterSeptember 14, 20199 Replies

In order to love who you are and trust yourself whole again, you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you. – Unknown Author

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Special Thought – Trust yourself. You’ve survived a lot, and you’ll survive whatever is coming.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Today, I want to speak about trusting yourself whole again. It is hard to trust other people when you don’t trust yourself. To take this a step further, if you are going through life waiting on other people to guide your every move or make important decisions for you, then you need to take note of your current situation and make necessary changes in order to grow on a personal level.

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Now, let’s begin your journey of growth by answering these questions:

• Are my actions guided by love or fear?
• What do I want or need in my life?
• Is this action important to me or other people?
• Will this action bring peace or inner turmoil?

Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do. – Benjamin Spock

To begin with, trusting yourself whole again is an on-going and everchanging process. So, how do you define trusting yourself whole again? Like any other thought or feeling we experience in life, our definitions may vary from person to person, but here’s how you know when you are trusting yourself whole again:

• You are a survivor.
• You practice kindness, not perfection.
• You refuse to give up on yourself.
• You are able to take care of your personal needs and safety.

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In addition, throughout this process, it is important to note that sometimes people need permission to break. Believe it or not, it is from that broken place that you are finally able to become whole again.

Here’s some things to look for while you’re in this broken state:

• You will notice what you’re feeling.
• You will take time to pause and be silent.
• You will meditate and reconnect with your inner being.
• You will be grateful for all things, big or small.
• You will choose to feel whole and complete.

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TIPS FOR BUILDING TRUST IN YOURSELF

Trust yourself enough to let go, shift, and uproot. Give yourself permission to shed who you used to be. You are allowed to start over and find new ways to bloom into your best self. – Alex Elle

Remember, that at any moment you can choose to feel whole again, no matter what is or isn’t in your life. You need nothing to feel whole except your realization that you are.

Here’s some tips for building trust in yourself:

• Be yourself and be your own inspiration.
• Set reasonable goals for yourself.
• Be kind to yourself.
• Build on your strengths, not weaknesses.
• Spend quiet time with yourself.
• Be decisive and take risks.
• Take back your personal power.
• Have faith, show gratitude, and stay hopeful.

Finally, I have faith in you my friend. Take advantage of the resources that can be purchased through Amazon included throughout this blog post. Remember, if it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you. Believe in yourself and your feelings. Take a moment to trust yourself enough to do what your heart is guiding you to do. Your intuition is powerful. Trust it.

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POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS

Life is too short to start your day with broken pieces of yesterday, it will definitely destroy your wonderful today, and ruin your great tomorrow. – Unknown Author

Positive affirmations help you to attract more positivity and transform your thoughts. It’s important to repeat the following positive affirmations daily until they are hidden in your heart:

• I am exactly where I need to be right now.
• All things are temporary.
• I’m grateful for adversity because it allows me to grow.
• My strengths are greater than my struggles.
• I will let go of the things that I cannot control.
• I am strong and I am enough.
• I love myself for who I am.
• I am worthy of great things.
• I am in charge of my own self-worth.
• I respect myself and demand respect from other people.
• I am surrounded by love, peace, and joy.
• Success and happiness come easily to me.
• I can create the life I dream of.

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SELF-REFLECTION & JOURNAL PROMPTS

Seek to be whole, not perfect. – Oprah Winfrey

Journaling is a powerful way to process events in your life, build self-awareness, get more clarity, and keep yourself on track. Journaling also allows for past reflection, future insight, and present surrender. Now, open your journal or notebook and practice journaling each day by using these helpful journal prompts:

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Here’s some journal prompts to help you trust yourself whole again:

• Describe yourself in 3 words.

• Do you trust yourself?

• Do you feel whole and complete?

• What is your biggest victory? Fear?

• What makes you proud of yourself?

• How do you cope with your triggers and emotions?

• What is your vision for the next month? Year?

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TIME TO SHARE & COMMENT

I’m working on myself for myself by myself. – Unknown Author

Let’s talk. Now, it’s time to be honest with yourself. Do you trust yourself enough to make decisions or do you care about what others think? Do you feel that you are whole or broken? Explain. Please share in the comments section. I look forward to reading your feedback!

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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Seeking Wholeness Through Journaling

LaPorterApril 5, 20198 Replies

Seek to be whole, not perfect. – Oprah Winfrey

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Thought for the week – I am God’s masterpiece. – Ephesians 2:10

MY PERSONAL JOURNEY

The right way to wholeness is made up of fateful detours and wrong turnings. – C.G. Jung

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! I’ve always kept a journal when growing up, but I never got serious about journaling until December 2015 when my world changed forever. I remember the details like it was yesterday. I received a dreadful call from the Physical Rehab facility stating that my mother was found unresponsive and I need to meet the ambulance at the hospital. I felt an immediate panic that I have never felt before. I got out of bed feeling numb all over and my thoughts were scattered between confused, scared, and sad. Since it was so late at night, I told my husband to stay home with our children. As I drove to the hospital alone, I had to make calls to some of my family members, but my brother was the only one who met me at the hospital. We sat in this small room waiting to be updated by the hospital staff, but 10 minutes seemed like hours. My mind was racing from one thought to another. The nurse finally walked in with no emotion on her face. She greeted us with a slight smile and hand shake. Then, we followed her down the long dark hall to the ER. As we entered the ER space and saw our mother hooked to so many machines, I felt sick. Her eyes were closed and restraints held her hands and feet. Even though she was not moving, I began to pray and talk to my mother not knowing if she could hear me. A part of me thought she was already gone, but I had to reach for any hope that was left. My mother fault a good fight, but she took her last breath on that cold December night.

It was then that I knew my life would no longer be the same. I was broken and my heart was shattered in many pieces. I became sad, depressed and secluded. Journaling became my everything. I wrote letters to my mother expressing how I was feeling. I wrote my thoughts and feelings in my journal as well. Some days I just wrote words and to be honest none of them made sense to me at the time, but I find myself reflecting on them often.

JOURNALING CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE

To change your life, you have to change yourself. To change yourself, you have to change your mindset. – Wilson Kanadi

Here’s some ways journaling can change your life so you can feel whole again:

• Helps you sort through life’s challenges and problems

• Release sadness and anger, in return, provides hope and peace

• Provides a safe place for expression that is considered a no judgment zone

• Offers an opportunity for personal reflection

• Allow yourself to experience personal growth and be present with oneself

GETTING STARTED WITH JOURNALING

You don’t have to be great to start, but you do have to start to be great. – Unknown Author

The process to get started with journaling is not difficult, but can seem overwhelming at first. Once you allow yourself to be free and honest, everything else will fall into place.

Here’s what you need to get started with journaling:

• Supplies – Choose a journal, notebook, computer, pen, pencil

• Space – Find a quiet and safe place where you can sit in comfort with very few distractions

• Time – Make a commitment to write in your journal at the same time every day even if it is only for 5 or 10 minutes

• Content Ideas – You can start with a list of what you’re grateful for; You can write down a Bible verse, inspirational quote or prayer; Write down your goals, hopes, and aspirations; Ask yourself questions, then answer them.

Be creative and make it personal. Use colorful pens, pencils or markers. Add stickers, pictures, or quotes. Draw pictures or write poetry. For additional journal prompts, please refer to any of my Renew Inspiration blogs.

BENEFITS OF JOURNALING

Journal writing is a voyage to the interior. – Christina Baldwin

Here’s some benefits of journaling:

• You begin to feel comfortable in your own skin

• You strive to create the life you desire

• You see what is working in your life and what is not

• Your relationships will improve over time

• You start to feel at peace with yourself

• You learn better coping skills

• You break old habits and learn new habits

• You learn how to live each day to the fullest

• You learn how to discover and align one’s vision and mission

POSITIVE AFFIRMATION STATEMENTS

I have the power to make changes. – Louise Hay

• I am worthy.

• I am the best me there is.

• I am capable and deserving of respect.

• I know that I am a winner.

• I am grateful.

• I forgive myself and others.

• I trust and believe in myself.

• I have unlimited power.

• I take steps towards my goals.

• I choose to shine and stand with confidence.

• I am grounded in love, peace, and joy.

• God will always be with me and guide my every step.

TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

The purpose of our journey is to restore ourselves to wholeness. – Debbie Ford

• What inspires you to seek wholeness through journaling?

• What makes you feel complete and most empowered in life?

• How do you describe wholeness as it relates to your own life?

• How have you changed in the last 5 years? 3 years? 1 year?

• In order to be whole again, I need to ________________________.

• Write a list of things that make you happy, smile, and feel complete.

• How can you cherish your thoughts of feeling whole again?

• What area of your life, right now, makes you feel the best?

• What do you know to be true today about yourself that you didn’t know a year ago?

• What is your ultimate goal in life?

• What are your unique gifts and talents?

• How can you live your life more passionately?

• Let’s jump forward a year. What would you like to have achieved in the past year?

By now, I hope we can agree that it’s okay to be imperfect and to allow yourself an opportunity to keep learning, to feel scared and alone, to keep stumbling and failing throughout life’s difficult moments. The flip side of life’s reality is the freedom to feel whole again! Take moments in your life to relax, breathe, and just feel. Never underestimate the power of journaling. If you allow yourself to be open to healing and transformation, journaling can change your thoughts, feelings, and give you complete wholeness!

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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