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Success Driven

LaPorterJune 8, 20192 Replies

Love life. Engage in it. Give it all you’ve got. Love it with a passion because life truly does give back, many times over, what you put into it. – Maya Angelou

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Well, I have to be honest. I don’t know anyone who would not want to experience some level of success in their life at some point or another. Now, take a moment to think about your life. Do you consider yourself success driven? Whether it is graduating from high school or college, finding the career of your dreams, buying your first home, getting married or starting a family; the feeling of success brings happiness to your life every time. If you’re honest, you will agree that everyone strives to be successful at one point or another throughout life. Unfortunately, life has a way of placing roadblocks in our path which makes it even harder to achieve success along our journey. Today, I want to talk about what is needed to be success driven.

When I think of someone being success driven, I think of an individual that is not afraid of following these necessary steps throughout life:

• Step 1 – Make a commitment to yourself to become success driven.

• Step 2 – Set some realistic goals for yourself and write them down.

• Step 3 – Make a plan to meet your goals and revisit your plan often.

• Step 4 – Put your plan to work by focusing on tasks that will help you achieve your goals.

As you become more clear about who you really are, you’ll be better able to decide what is best for you the first time around. – Oprah Winfrey

HEALTHY HABITS

Here’s some healthy habits to add to your daily routine:

• Set goals and make a plan to achieve your goals.

• Never stop researching and learning.

• Don’t be afraid to challenge yourself.

• Surround yourself around successful people.

• Wake up early and plan for a productive day.

• Strive to be an inspiration to others.

Success isn’t about how your life looks to others. It’s about how it feels to you. – Michelle Obama

QUALITIES OF AN OVER ACHIEVER

Here’s the qualities of an over achiever:

• Motivation – You must have some level of motivation. What is motivation? Motivation is the force which drives you to take action.

• Commitment – You must be willing to make a commitment. What is commitment? Commitment is simply giving your heart and soul to completing your objective, and really caring about the outcome.

• Determination – You must have self-determination. What is determination? Determination is the quality of resoluteness to achieving your objectives. To be determined means that you have decided to achieve a goal and will not waver until you achieve the goal.

• Persistence – You must show persistence throughout life. What is persistence? Persistence is the quality of remaining resolute to your goals while you are in the process of bringing them to reality.

• Discipline – Your must have the will power to remain disciplined in all facets of life. What is discipline? Discipline is the quality of self-mastery that allows you to make progress on your goal even though something inside you want to quit.

QUALITIES TO HELP REACH GOALS

Here’s some valuable qualities to incorporate into your lives that will put you on track to reach your goals:

• Be positive, kind and optimistic

• Be patient with yourself and with others

• Be resilient

• Be adaptable and ready to learn

• Be authentic

• Be truthful

• Challenge yourself often

• Be thoughtful and have a grateful heart

• Live your dreams

• Remain calm and humble

Along the way, while living our best life, mistakes happen and problems arise from time to time. When temporary setbacks occur in life always remember to:

• Embrace Failure – During this journey called life, it’s important to understand that we may fail. Remember, it’s not about how you fall, but it’s about how you get up and how you learn from your mistakes.

• Have Purpose – If you don’t have purpose in life, you will not succeed. You have to find out the reason you’re preparing yourself and working hard to achieve your goals.

• Practice Reliability – It’s important to be a person of your word. Simply put, successful people are reliable. Believe it or not, people will take notice and opportunities will come your way so be ready.

The key to success is to focus on goals, not obstacles. Remember, it’s important to know that it will not always be easy throughout the process, but never give up. Change your mindset, be faithful, and stay the course until you receive the positive benefits of reaching the top. Since we all are different, our definitions of being success driven may vary from person to person. Allow yourself to be creative and open minded. After all, we were put on this Earth for a purpose that is much greater that we are, right?

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

Who you are tomorrow begins with what you do today. – Tim Fargo

• What’s your biggest dream?

• What’s your goal(s) for the next month?

• What is your vision for the next year?

• Where do you want to be in 5 years?

• What are you struggling with at the moment?

• What would you like to change in your daily routine?

• What old habit do you want to eliminate from your life?

• What good habit do you want to develop?

• What’s holding you back from being success driven?

• What’s the hardest challenge you have overcome?

TIME TO SHARE & COMMENT

Let’s talk. Do you consider yourself success driven? Why or why not?

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Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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Seeking Wholeness Through Journaling

LaPorterApril 5, 20198 Replies

Seek to be whole, not perfect. – Oprah Winfrey

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Thought for the week – I am God’s masterpiece. – Ephesians 2:10

MY PERSONAL JOURNEY

The right way to wholeness is made up of fateful detours and wrong turnings. – C.G. Jung

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! I’ve always kept a journal when growing up, but I never got serious about journaling until December 2015 when my world changed forever. I remember the details like it was yesterday. I received a dreadful call from the Physical Rehab facility stating that my mother was found unresponsive and I need to meet the ambulance at the hospital. I felt an immediate panic that I have never felt before. I got out of bed feeling numb all over and my thoughts were scattered between confused, scared, and sad. Since it was so late at night, I told my husband to stay home with our children. As I drove to the hospital alone, I had to make calls to some of my family members, but my brother was the only one who met me at the hospital. We sat in this small room waiting to be updated by the hospital staff, but 10 minutes seemed like hours. My mind was racing from one thought to another. The nurse finally walked in with no emotion on her face. She greeted us with a slight smile and hand shake. Then, we followed her down the long dark hall to the ER. As we entered the ER space and saw our mother hooked to so many machines, I felt sick. Her eyes were closed and restraints held her hands and feet. Even though she was not moving, I began to pray and talk to my mother not knowing if she could hear me. A part of me thought she was already gone, but I had to reach for any hope that was left. My mother fault a good fight, but she took her last breath on that cold December night.

It was then that I knew my life would no longer be the same. I was broken and my heart was shattered in many pieces. I became sad, depressed and secluded. Journaling became my everything. I wrote letters to my mother expressing how I was feeling. I wrote my thoughts and feelings in my journal as well. Some days I just wrote words and to be honest none of them made sense to me at the time, but I find myself reflecting on them often.

JOURNALING CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE

To change your life, you have to change yourself. To change yourself, you have to change your mindset. – Wilson Kanadi

Here’s some ways journaling can change your life so you can feel whole again:

• Helps you sort through life’s challenges and problems

• Release sadness and anger, in return, provides hope and peace

• Provides a safe place for expression that is considered a no judgment zone

• Offers an opportunity for personal reflection

• Allow yourself to experience personal growth and be present with oneself

GETTING STARTED WITH JOURNALING

You don’t have to be great to start, but you do have to start to be great. – Unknown Author

The process to get started with journaling is not difficult, but can seem overwhelming at first. Once you allow yourself to be free and honest, everything else will fall into place.

Here’s what you need to get started with journaling:

• Supplies – Choose a journal, notebook, computer, pen, pencil

• Space – Find a quiet and safe place where you can sit in comfort with very few distractions

• Time – Make a commitment to write in your journal at the same time every day even if it is only for 5 or 10 minutes

• Content Ideas – You can start with a list of what you’re grateful for; You can write down a Bible verse, inspirational quote or prayer; Write down your goals, hopes, and aspirations; Ask yourself questions, then answer them.

Be creative and make it personal. Use colorful pens, pencils or markers. Add stickers, pictures, or quotes. Draw pictures or write poetry. For additional journal prompts, please refer to any of my Renew Inspiration blogs.

BENEFITS OF JOURNALING

Journal writing is a voyage to the interior. – Christina Baldwin

Here’s some benefits of journaling:

• You begin to feel comfortable in your own skin

• You strive to create the life you desire

• You see what is working in your life and what is not

• Your relationships will improve over time

• You start to feel at peace with yourself

• You learn better coping skills

• You break old habits and learn new habits

• You learn how to live each day to the fullest

• You learn how to discover and align one’s vision and mission

POSITIVE AFFIRMATION STATEMENTS

I have the power to make changes. – Louise Hay

• I am worthy.

• I am the best me there is.

• I am capable and deserving of respect.

• I know that I am a winner.

• I am grateful.

• I forgive myself and others.

• I trust and believe in myself.

• I have unlimited power.

• I take steps towards my goals.

• I choose to shine and stand with confidence.

• I am grounded in love, peace, and joy.

• God will always be with me and guide my every step.

TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

The purpose of our journey is to restore ourselves to wholeness. – Debbie Ford

• What inspires you to seek wholeness through journaling?

• What makes you feel complete and most empowered in life?

• How do you describe wholeness as it relates to your own life?

• How have you changed in the last 5 years? 3 years? 1 year?

• In order to be whole again, I need to ________________________.

• Write a list of things that make you happy, smile, and feel complete.

• How can you cherish your thoughts of feeling whole again?

• What area of your life, right now, makes you feel the best?

• What do you know to be true today about yourself that you didn’t know a year ago?

• What is your ultimate goal in life?

• What are your unique gifts and talents?

• How can you live your life more passionately?

• Let’s jump forward a year. What would you like to have achieved in the past year?

By now, I hope we can agree that it’s okay to be imperfect and to allow yourself an opportunity to keep learning, to feel scared and alone, to keep stumbling and failing throughout life’s difficult moments. The flip side of life’s reality is the freedom to feel whole again! Take moments in your life to relax, breathe, and just feel. Never underestimate the power of journaling. If you allow yourself to be open to healing and transformation, journaling can change your thoughts, feelings, and give you complete wholeness!

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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