Your self-doubt does not define who you are or what you are capable of. – Unknown Author

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! I hope you and your families are healthy and safe during this difficult time. Michigan’s Governor has extended our Stay-At-Home Order until May 15th.
Now, we have more time on our hands to spend with family and to do things that have been on our bucket lists for a long time.

But let’s face it, it is hard to start projects, whether it is writing a book, training for a 5K, going back to school, changing jobs or any other dream you may have. The moment you take that first step on your journey, the moment you start working toward your dream, little seeds of self-doubt begins to plant fear in your mind. Take a deep breath and capture the moment. Despite the fear you may feel because you are entering an unknown territory, embrace your true feelings and know that conquering self-doubt is possible.

Self-doubt can:

• Hold you back from opportunities

• Make things harder than they need to be

• Increase fear and anxiety

• Cause you to be stuck in the comparison trap

• Force you to live in the past

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COMMON CAUSES OF SELF-DOUBT

Self-doubt inflicts the deepest wounds. – Unknown Author

According to the Webster Dictionary, self-doubt can be defined as having lack of confidence in oneself and one’s abilities. Did you know that self-doubt is the most common reason why people fail throughout his or her life journey? Many people spend way too much time overanalyzing and overthinking everyday life situations, goals, dreams, and challenges.

Here’s some common causes of self-doubt that people may encounter:

• Past experiences, thoughts and mistakes reoccurring in his or her mind

• Childhood upbringing and/or trauma that was never dealt with growing up

• Lack of courage and self-confidence with oneself

• Getting caught up in comparisons with others

• The need to rise to new challenges and/or opportunities

• Having constant fear of failure and/or successes

• Struggling to overcome procrastination and meeting deadlines

• No willpower and lack of commitment when involved with projects and people

• Trying to live out other people’s dreams instead of his or her own

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CONQUERING SELF-DOUBT

Self-doubt is contagious so be careful. – Unknown Author

Everyone handles situations in their lives differently. However, many situations occur in life that call upon us to do something we find scary, upsetting, uncomfortable, anxiety provoking, or distressing. However, it’s important for people to approach self-doubt head on and don’t allow excuses to interfere with decision making.

Here’s some ways to assist with conquering self-doubt:

• Ground yourself and don’t overthink it.

• Commit yourself ahead of time and tell negative voices to stop.

• Take a break and get a boost of optimism through the journaling process.

• Listen to encouraging podcast and read self-development books.

• Nurture healthy relationships by doing fun activities with family or a friend.

• Create a set of mantras, positive quotes or affirmations for on-going support.

• Find a licensed therapist or support group that you feel comfortable with.

UPLIFTING AFFIRMATIONS

I am totally safe and surrounded by love, light, peace, joy, and happiness. – Unknown Author

Every day I grow closer to my highest self. I remove any sign of self-doubt from my very being. I believe in the person I dream of becoming. My energy is powerful and positive. I am a powerful woman who supersedes everything I put my mind to. I am unstoppable, powerful, confident, and simply amazing. Affirmations are created to help change our mindset.

Here’s some other uplifting affirmations you may want to live by:

• Everything that is happening now is happening for my ultimate good.

• Though these times are difficult, they are only a short phase of life.

• My ability to conquer my challenges is limitless: my potential to succeed is infinite.

• I am conquering my illness. I am defeating it steadily each day.

• Amazing opportunities exist for me in every aspect of my life.

Always remember that you deserve to be happy. You deserve to live a life you are excited about. Don’t let other people make you forget that. Remember, don’t get caught up in the comparison trap instead remove the distractions. Let go of excuses and trust yourself. Think of the doors that would open for you. If you struggle with self-doubt take some time to consider all the ways your life could be different if you were able to tackle your issue(s) successfully and use the motivation this process gives you to take the necessary step.

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JOURNAL PROMPTS

Inhale confidence, exhale doubt. – Unknown Author

I love journaling because it is a safe place for me to put my feelings and emotions into words, then put my words into action. Remember, journaling is your very own personal journey throughout life, your ups and downs, your successes and failures. In addition, journaling is a powerful way to process events in your life, build self-awareness, get more clarity, and keep yourself on track. Journaling also allows for past reflection, future insight, and present surrender. Keep in mind that this is a journey. Everyone takes their own path. Ready, set, write!

• What does it look like for you to take a step of courage right in this very moment?

• List one dream you have for your life. What would this dream look like to be full of hope, even if you don’t know how your story is going to end?

• Write about a door you know God has closed in your life. How did you find the courage to work through this experience?

• What are five things that make you nervous or uncomfortable?

• What is it about each of these five things that bothers you most?

• Have there been times in your life when you’ve needed to be courageous? Take a moment to write about the situation and what you did to overcome your fears.

• Is there someone in your life whom you would characterize as courageous? If so, write about what you admire about this person and their courage.

• Describe an area of your life in which you wish you were more courageous? What is it, and how would you benefit?

SHARING WITH ONE ANOTHER

You are strong. You are brave. You are oh so loved. – Unknown Author

Let’s take a moment to share with one another. How are you planning on conquering self-doubt as it occurs in your life? What are some of your favorite affirmations? Do you journal often? If so, how does journaling help you conquer self-doubt?

Please share your responses in the comment below so we can learn and grow together. I am excited to hear from you. Until next time, stay encouraged, stay healthy, and stay safe!

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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