Self-Reflection

The Gift of Friendship

LaPorterJanuary 31, 20193 Replies

The most valuable gift you can receive is an honest friend. – Unknown Author

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Well, I don’t know about where you live, but Michigan has been extremely cold over the last week or so. The schools have been closed all week and we are not due for relief until the weekend. Nevertheless, today I want to talk about the gift of friendship. Take a moment and think about what friendship means to you. Friendship can be defined as a relationship of mutual affection between people. So, what makes a perfect friendship? How do we maintain friendships with the demands of our family, jobs, and other responsibilities? Think of that person who you can call at any time of the day when you need some advice, are feeling down, or when you just need a good laugh. Now, let’s make this clear. I’m not talking about your online friends and followers. For example, here’s a list of my social media accounts and the number of Friends/Followers that I currently have:

Facebook – 911 Friends
www.facebook.com/renewinspirationmindbodyspirit

Instagram – 758 Followers
www.instagram.com/renewinspiration/

Twitter – 2,211 Followers
www.twitter.com/renew_lporter08

Pinterest – 4,196 Followers
www.pinterest.com/lporter08

We have to remember to sign out of our social media accounts from time to time and make a greater effort in our busy lives to find ways to connect face to face with friends.

FRIENDSHIP TRAITS

The more we are invested in our friendships, the less we become single-minded and forget about the things that actually matter. It’s important to find friends who uplift your soul, who are full of life, and who are excited about your new ideas and want to see you fulfill your hopes and dreams.

Here’s some of the friendship traits to look for:

• Friends who are empathetic usually are active listeners.

• Friends who are selfless usually helps solve the problems of others.

• Friends who are trustworthy reminds you that you are not alone.

• Friends with shared interests, such as education, values, hobbies, goals or religion.

• Friends with different perspectives and backgrounds have the ability to transform into a growth mindset.

• Friends who are humorous often times bring joy, hope and comfort even in the midst of life’s most difficult situations.

• Friends who are a team player will put the needs of others before their own.

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KEEP FRIENDSHIPS STRONG

Everyone has a friend during each stage of life. But only lucky ones have the same friend in all stages of life. – Unknown Author

It’s important to keep friendships strong even when the going gets tough, right?

Here’s some valuable tips to help you keep friendships strong:

• Tip 1 – Show respect to get respect.

• Tip 2 – Communicate honestly with your friends.

• Tip 3 – Spend quality time with your friends doing what you both enjoy.

• Tip 4 – Admit when you are wrong and apologize.

• Tip 5 – Let go of the past and move forward.

• Tip 6 – Keep your promises throughout the friendship.

• Tip 7 – Give your friends their personal space.

SIGNS OF A TRUE FRIENDSHIP

A best friend is someone who loves you when you have forgotten how to love yourself. – Unknown Author

• A true friend will accept everything about you, including your flaws.

• A true friend will stick with you through the good and bad times.

• A true friend will always be happy for your successes and encourage you through your failures.

• A true friend will always meet you halfway in any situation.

• A true friend makes you feel happier, not drained and stressed.

• A true friend won’t talk about you behind your back.

• A true friend will always find it in their heart to forgive you.

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS – FRIENDSHIPS & RELATIONSHIPS

Friendship is not about who you’ve known the longest. It’s about who walked into your life, said “I’m here for you” and proved it. – Unknown Author

Journal Prompts are given to inspire you to write freely about your life and to strengthen your friendships/relationships.

• What are some of your childhood memories?

• Who were some of your childhood friends?

• Who inspires you and why?

• Who do you want to be surrounded by?

• Who makes me feel the most loved?

• Who brings the most joy to my life?

• What old stories or memories are holding you back?

• Who do you miss the most in your life?

As you can see, friendship takes work and courage from both parties involved. Friends give us hope in life’s most difficult situations, help us to de-stress our lives, and provide affirmation of your life’s paths. Now, take another moment and reflect on what friendship means to you after reading this blog post. Then, write and send a letter to a friend who has been there for you before. Thank him or her. Tell your friend how much he or she means to you. Peace and blessings!

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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From Journaling to Blogging

LaPorterJanuary 27, 20199 Replies

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The past is your lesson. The present is your gift. The future is your motivation. – Unknown Author

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Today, I want to discuss the process from journaling to blogging. As a start, it’s important to know that journaling is whatever you want it to be. You are in control and can define what journaling means to you. For example, I chose journaling to express myself while grieving the death of my mother. Simply put, journaling can be your creative way to record life in general and all its amazing experiences.

JOURNALING SNAPSHOT

Journaling can be done online or using a journal notebook. Journaling is a form of expression and is always a personal journey to help cleanse one’s soul. For example, when you choose to write in your journal, you can begin the healing process to release various emotions, such as pain, hurt, or guilt; feelings, such as sadness, happiness, or loneliness; practicing self-reflection by designing your journal pages using colorful markers, stickers to add a personal touch, or including pictures and quotes.

Remember, journaling holds all of your emotions, thoughts, and feelings in one sacred place. Journaling has a way to uncover parts of yourself you never thought existed. Journaling can be fun, but also can be a serious process to help you cope with many life’s challenges, such as depression, grief, or loneliness. The most important fact about journaling is you have total control throughout the experience. You can keep it secret or share it with others.

JOURNALING TO FIND YOURSELF

Your life only gets better when you do. Work on yourself and the rest will follow. – Unknown Author

Now, let’s take the journaling process to the next level. How about using the journaling process to find yourself? Journaling is a way to capture ideas and keep your dreams alive until you can put them in motion. We have to be ready and willing to do what’s necessary to grow, to learn, and most importantly, to find yourself.

1. To ponder and pen your big dreams – Your journal is an ideal place to write out all of your desires and dreams. If there were no limits, what would you want to become? Who would you want to meet? What would you have? Where would you go? Write it all down, describing in detail what your success would look like. By doing this, you can begin to put the laws of success attraction into motion.

2. To get clarity and solve problems faster – When you are unable to see a clear path in your life, it’s better to jot down all those thoughts swirling around in your head. Writing things out gives you the accurate perspective necessary to attract the right solutions. Take a moment to write down questions related to your problems. In fact, you should have an attitude of expectancy that you will find the right answers.

3. To chart what works – Journaling about your ideas, successes, and even failures empowers you to backtrack to see what’s working in your life and what’s not. It’s important to be honest with yourself and be willing to make the necessary adjustments where needed to live a rewarding life.

4. To track your past victories – Take a moment to celebrate your victories and write when and where you have excelled in life. It’s easy to remember your every mishap, but also make an effort to note what’s going right in your life as well.

5. To plan and strategize – Use your journal for both short-term and long-term planning. This process will allow you to work through specific strategies on how you will accomplish your goals. Plan everything from the week ahead to the entire year in your journal.

6. To create a success action routine – Your success action routine should consist of time for meditation and visualization, speaking positive affirmations and reviewing your goals. Visualize yourself completing your goals and feeling the benefits and rewards of doing so.

7. To take control over your future – Journaling about your ideal life and begin to act as if you have that life right now. Be descriptive and detailed in your writing. This will help you prepare for an opportunity that doesn’t exist yet, and ready yourself for the victory to come.

8. For self-improvement – Your journal is a safe place where you can truly be honest with yourself. This is your book, your story, your journey. You have no limitations or boundaries. Your journal is private so you can express yourself and get to know who you really are and what you truly desire.

9. To help you through the decision-making process – In your journal, you can list pros and cons when you are faced with having to make a difficult decision. Write out every possible outcome and use this to guide you through the decision-making process.

10. To keep you in a state of gratefulness – As you go through the process to find yourself, stay grateful throughout your journey. Express gratitude in your journal. Slowing down to make note of what you’re thankful for can relieve you of anxiety, stress, and help you to enjoy life to the fullest. In addition, the act of gratefulness also draws more positivity your way, helping you to create a cycle of success.

Then, after a few months, I decided to move from journaling to blogging. Remember, you may go through this same process, but for different reasons.

BLOGGING SNAPSHOT

There are many reasons why people start blogging. Some people start blogging as a hobby and for some people it’s a career. Blogging can be defined as a website containing a writer’s or group of writers’ own experiences, observations, opinions, etc., and often having images and links to other websites, a single entry or post on such a website.

For example, setting up my Renew Inspiration blog was a challenging experience, but yet rewarding at the same time. Through this experience, I found my true passion, inspiring my supportive audience (that’s you) through writing in the form of blogging. So, thank you for believing in me and taking the time to visit my blog often. Remember, this experience is not complete without you.

The blogging experience improves your life in the following ways:

• Help you become a better writer and thinker

• Lead you to a healthier lifestyle and choices

• Inspire other people with encouraging words

• Allow you to network and meet new like-minded people

• Create awareness or getting your voice heard

• Satisfy your creative side and gaining knowledge through research

DOWNSIDE TO BLOGGING

Be brave. Take risks. Nothing can substitute experience. – Unknown Author

Blogging is popular because it is a great marketing tool and helps you make money, but it also has a downside.

• Blogging requires a commitment and takes a great deal of time to manage. For blogs to be effective at SEO and engaging readers, it needs to be updated regularly.

• Blogging involves creativity and you having a passion to write about things you enjoy. To keep the content flowing, you have to keep the readers engaged with awesome ideas, tips or suggestions.

• Blogging can provide income for some people, but the payoff is not immediate. One of the biggest frustrations with blogging is that it is time-consuming with little payoff in the beginning. It takes time to build up a readership and momentum.

Whether you are journaling or blogging, it is important to remember, ideas to write about can be found all around you. Take a moment and look around you right where you are. Inspiration is not required to knock at your door twice so enjoy the process as you help find yourself through the experience and inspire others at the same time.

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

I am blessed. I am beautiful. I am brave. I am bold. I am strong. I am enough. – Unknown Author

Journal Prompts are given to inspire you to write freely about your life and to help you find yourself.

• What does a successful life look like to you?

• What do I want to accomplish in my life today?

• How can I create more acceptance in my life?

• What feels like a struggle at the moment?

• What is your biggest regret?

• How have I been holding myself back?

• What is the best piece of advice you’ve received?

• How can I take a step forward?

SHARE YOUR JOURNALING AND BLOGGING EXPERIENCES

I aspire to be a giver. A giver of love, a giver of good vibes and a giver of strength. – Unknown Author

Do you enjoy journaling and/or blogging? Please share your journaling and blogging experiences. We can learn from one another and grow through one another’s learning experiences.

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

My Time, My Season

LaPorterJanuary 19, 201919 Replies

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Time has a wonderful way of showing us what really matters. – Unknown Author

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! So, how has your January been? Honestly, it feels like forever since I’ve written a blog post. Well, I don’t know about you, but 2019 has started off busy for me, but in a positive way. For starters, on the writing front, I have decided to:

• Continue my Renew Inspiration blog.
• Plan to write my first Renew Inspiration book.
• Strive to keep journaling, reading, writing, and meditating.
• Continue to write articles via Hub Garden.
• Pursue other freelance writing opportunities.

I have really enjoyed this blogging experience while connecting with you and have met so many awesome bloggers along the way as well. I felt it necessary to document my writing goals in a blog post to keep me grounded on what’s important in my life, right now, in this very moment. In addition, I want to be accountable to my overall writing career and make plans to reach all of these goals this year. Why now you ask? Because I feel it is my time and my season to enjoy my passion which is writing.

In addition to following after my writing dreams, shortly after the new year, I started a new part-time secretary job in an educational setting. If you know me, I have another passion which is doing administrative type work, such as typing, organizing/doing projects in an office setting, answering calls and resulting customer complaints, managing paperwork and/or online files, etc. This specific job proves that it is my time and my season as well. I was offered a full-time job after months of testing and interviewing, but I had to decline the offer due to family conflicts. Unfortunately, I have to drop off and pick up my children from school so I cannot work full-time hours at this time. Then, they offered me the part-time position right after I declined the full-time offer which was a total blessing for me and my family. This job opportunity allows me to work in an office environment (which I love), offers me an opportunity to work in an educational setting (which I have a passion for learning), gives me an opportunity to contribute to my retirement (which is a bonus) and offers me a flexible work schedule which is a WIN – WIN any way you look at it!

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WORK-LIFE BALANCE

Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life. – Unknown Author

Well, as you probably already know, I have been pulled in so many directions in the last few weeks. I’ve been struggling to balance my work, family obligations and writing projects which are all dear to my heart. There’s so much information to learn when starting a new job. Quite frankly, it is totally stressful and difficult to find a healthy work-life balance that works for me while maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

Work-life balance can be defined as the balance that an individual need between time allocated for work and other aspects of life. Areas of life other than work-life can be, but not limited to personal interests, family, social or leisure activities.

TIPS TO MANAGE WORK-LIFE BALANCE

• Set realistic schedules and do not strive for perfection.

• Prioritize your health by eating healthier options, meditating and exercising.

• Build downtime into your schedule to relax, read, and update your planner.

• Make time for yourself. For example, schedule a spa da or day out with your friends.

• Rethink your errands and household chores. Don’t be afraid to delegate duties to others.

MY TO-DO LIST FOR TODAY

• Count my blessings and take nothing for granted.

• Practice kindness to everyone I come into contact with.

• Let go of what I cannot control, seen and unseen.

• Listen to my heart in every situation.

• Be productive throughout your day yet calm in your spirit.

• Just relax and breathe.

HOW TO COPE WITH ANXIETY

Your life only gets better when you do. Work on yourself and the rest will follow. – Unknown Author

Anxiety can be defined as a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease, typically about something with an uncertain outcome. Often times, if not properly treated, a person could be diagnosed with an anxiety disorder which involves compulsive behavior or panic attacks. I realize that transition and change are sometimes difficult for us to handle throughout life. As you experience these type of situations, please remember, you are not alone throughout this process.

• Get enough sleep.

• Eat well and exercise.

• Organize life as much as possible. Example – plan meals, get clothes ready at night, etc.

• Ask for help when necessary.

• Avoid masking how you feel. Honesty is key.

• Make self-care a priority during the transition.

• Remember your strengths.

• Know that you are in control.

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

The most important person to keep your promises to, is yourself. – Unknown Author

• What makes you proud of yourself right now in this very moment?

• What is your vision for the next 6 months? year?

• What fear is holding you back?

• How do you respond to setbacks and failure?

• What is one behavior you need to let go this year?

• What did you do today that brought you closer to your goal/dream?

• How can I love myself on today?

SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES, GOALS & DREAMS

Do you feel it is your time and your season? How do you handle anxiety and the fear of the unknown? What are some of your goals and dreams? Do you have passions that you plan to pursue or are pursuing?

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

Blog Milestone

LaPorterJanuary 7, 20193 Replies

Life is not a matter of milestones, but of moments. – Rose Kennedy

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! It has been a whole year since I stepped out on faith and created my Renew Inspiration blog. I stayed committed and focused throughout the year to post inspirational and uplifting blog posts. My goal was to inspire, encourage and motivate others. In addition, I’ve also met so many awesome bloggers and authors along the way. There is so much to learn and share with one another in the blogging/writing community. I want to thank you for being supportive in many ways, such as following/subscribing to my Renew Inspiration blog, leaving encouraging blog comments, sharing my blog posts on various social media platforms, and most of all, for staying with me throughout this learning experience.

RENEW INSPIRATION BLOG DETAILS

The harder you work for something, the greater you’ll feel when you achieve it. – Unknown Author

https://renewinspiration.com

• 86 Blog Posts in 2018

• 195 Followers/Subscribers

• 7,004 Hits Blog Stats

• 9.5k Shares via Pinterest

AFFILIATE PROGRAMS

Always take note of who supports you genuinely. Those are the people you should always keep around. – Unknown Author

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SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS

Sometimes we need someone to simply be there to let us feel that we are cared for and supported. – Unknown Author

Within a year, my Renew Inspiration social media accounts have grown so much because of supportive people like you. For that, I want to say thank you. If you have not followed my social media accounts, please follow the links below:

• Pinterest – www.pinterest.com/lporter08/ – 3,759 Followers

• Twitter – www.twitter.com/renew_lporter08 – 2,075 Followers

• Instagram – www.instagram.com/renewinspiration/ – 686 Followers

• Facebook – www.facebook.com/renewinspirationmindbodyspirit – 330 Likes & 336 Follows

2019 BLOG GOALS

Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment. – Jim Rohn

• Goal #1 – To increase my Renew Inspiration blog followers/subscribers.

• Goal #2 – To increase my Renew Inspiration social media platform followers.

• Goal #3 – To market my Renew Inspiration blog using various social media platforms.

• Goal #4 – To create my first E-Book.

• Goal #5 – To finish writing my first Renew Inspiration book.

WAYS TO FIND INSPIRATION

The things that excite you are not random. They are connected to your purpose. Follow them. – Unknown Author

• Yoga and Meditation – Allows you to tune out distractions and clear your mind

• Peaceful Walk in Nature – Calms your mind, body and spirit

• Draw, Paint or Color – Helps to distract you and allows you to be creative

• Read Blogs and Inspirational Books from other Writers – Allows you to be supportive while gaining different perspectives and finding fresh thoughts/ideas

• Spend Time Researching and Brainstorming – Helps you learn new information; Knowledge is Power

• Listen to Classical, Instrumental, Jazz or Gospel Music – Helps to calm and relax you

• Try a Hobby – Allows you to enjoy something you are passionate about

• Give Yourself Time to be Disconnected – Quiet time to write in your journal, to think and let your mind wander freely

• Surround yourself with positive things that energize you – Fresh flowers, beautiful paintings/pictures, quotes/affirmations

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

The most important person to keep your promises to, is yourself. – Unknown Author

• What makes you proud of yourself right now in this very moment?

• Who inspires you and why?

• What’s your affirmation for today?

• What is your vision for the next 6 months? year?

• What fear is holding you back?

• How do you respond to setbacks and failure?

• What is one behavior you need to let go this year?

• What did you do today that brought you closer to your goal/dream?

• What do I need more of in my life?

• How can I love myself on today?

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

Journaling to a New You

LaPorterDecember 28, 20186 Replies

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I choose to feel good about myself each day. – Louise Hay

Special Thought – I take time to reflect on my amazing life, then write in my journal.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Getting started with journaling can be frustrating for some people, but also can be life changing for others. When doing anything in life, having a personal and well-defined purpose will encourage you to stick to it. Do you want to journal to relieve stress and anxiety? Do you want to deal with a childhood trauma? Do you want to journal to a new you for 2019? Whatever your reason, the results will be the same. Once you begin the journaling process, you’ll become wiser, more enlightened, and all around better version of yourself.

JOURNALING TIPS

Journaling can help with personal growth and development. By regularly recording your thoughts you will gain insight into your behaviors and moods.

Here’s some great journaling tips:

• Use a pen and paper

• Journal in the morning

• Write every day

• Don’t edit your thoughts or feelings

• Don’t correct your grammar

• Schedule quality time for journaling

• Write about the current space you’re in and always be honest

• Use journaling prompts

• Talk to your inner child and write letters

• Cultivate an attitude of gratitude

• Keep it private

JOURNALING BENEFITS

Journaling allows you to track patterns, trends, improvement and growth over time. In addition, journaling has been proven to improve not only mental and physical health, but it has increased self-esteem in some people as well.

Here’s some other journaling benefits:

• Clarify your thoughts and feelings

• Know yourself better

• Reduce stress

• Solve problems more effectively

• Resolve disagreements with others

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MEDITATION TIPS

In addition, to starting your journaling process, it is important for you to participate in meditation practices as well. There is no doubt that meditation is good for you and will help you feel calmer throughout life.

Here’s some great meditation tips to help you start this process:

• Start small with 3 – 5 minutes (or less); Pay attention to the sensations of taking breaths

• Understand what meditation can do for you as it relates to stress, anxiety or overthinking

• Understand the principles of meditation; Becoming aware of when your mind has drifted and being able to redirect your attention back to your point of focus

• Do meditation your own way, make it personal

• Reduce all or nothing thinking

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

Everything you’ve ever wanted, is one step outside your comfort zone. – Unknown Author

MIND

• What thought patterns do I have and how do they impact my life?

• What takes your mind away from positive thoughts? Peaceful thoughts?

• What is one thing I can do this week to improve my meditation time?

BODY

• What is happening in my body right now?

• How can I honor my body on today?

• Does your self-care need improvement? How would you improve it?

SPIRIT

• What am I grateful for and why?

• What do I need to be free from and surrender to God?

• How much you are trusting God with your life right now?

As we look ahead to 2019, we’ve got gratitude on our minds. Continue to focus on your healthy living and fitness journey. I wish you a new year filled with joy, peace, hope, love, family, friends and laughter! Don’t procrastinate any longer. Get a journal and start journaling to a new you.

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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Shifting Your Mindset

LaPorterDecember 23, 201810 Replies

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You don’t need a new day to start over, you only need a new mindset. – Hazel Hira Ozbek

Special Thought – Life is only as good as your mindset.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! I cannot believe it is two days before Christmas and 9 days before the new year. Time really flies when you’re having fun, right? I want to spend some time discussing a very important concept called – Shifting Your Mindset. Honestly, I feel it is necessary to not only shift your mindset, but also you should evaluate your life from time to time. It is important to use positive activities, such as practicing self-reflection, creating healthy habits, or maybe even preparing a vision board for the upcoming year.

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Women need real moments of solitude and self-reflection to balance out how much of ourselves we give away. – Barbara DeAngeles

Self-reflection can be defined as meditation or serious thought about one’s character, actions and motives. Self-reflection is a humbling process. It’s essential to find out why you think, say, and do certain things, then better yourself throughout the process.

• Self-reflection allows you to notice negative patterns in your life. Consider alternate approaches to your situation(s) and begin to move away from the stressors altogether.

• Self-reflection keeps you focused on the bigger picture. Identify a clear vision of where you want to see yourself in the future. Write it down and remind yourself of what you hope to accomplish.

• Self-reflection prevents you from worrying about things out of your control. Instead, direct your energy toward things you can absolutely improve within your life.

• Self-reflection helps you face your fears. Recognize and admit your fears to yourself and eventually learn how to handle them.

• Self-reflection allows you to clearly define happiness on your own terms. When are you most happy? Who do you most enjoy spending time with? What accomplishments are you most proud of and why? By recognizing the positive life events, you can apply your knowledge to future goals and endeavors.

Keep in mind, self-reflection is an incredible gift so please embrace it every day. Meditation can make our journey through life more peaceful if you allow it to. In the mirror we find a reflection of our appearance, but in the heart, we find a reflection of our soul.

Time spent in self-reflection is never wasted – it is an intimate date with yourself. – Paul TP Wong

CREATING HEALTHY HABITS

Create healthy habits, not restrictions. – Unknown Author

Well, it is that time of the year when a lot of people set new goals or resolutions to create healthy habits for the new year. People set out with the best intentions but often times fail to keep the momentum throughout the year for various reasons.

Please keep these important tips in mind when creating healthy habits:

• Start with a realistic, small and attainable goal.

• Work it into your schedule and write it down like any other appointment.

• Track your progress in a journal or online.

• Figure out strategies to overcome what might hold you back.

• Enlist a friend to work on the goal with you.

• Reward yourself for small victories.

• Forgive yourself if you slip up and keep trying. Giving up is not an option.

• Use triggers to your advantage. For example, meditate before bed time every night or lay out your workout clothes every morning before you leave for work.

Remember, when you start to create healthy habits your enthusiasm is high, and you’re motivated to see positive changes within your life. Be patient and allow yourself to make mistakes along the way. Our greatest capacity to have influence over our health is with creating healthy habits.

It takes 21 days to make or break a habit. – Unknown Author

VISION BOARD

Create the highest, grandest vision possible for your life, because you become what you believe. – Oprah Winfrey

Have you ever created a vision board for yourself or your family? If not, what better time to think about creating one. A vision board is a visualization tool which refers to a board of any sort used to build a collage of words and pictures that represent your goals/dreams. By placing visual representations of your goals into one space, you can easily visualize them frequently.

Follow these important tips to create an awesome and inspiring vision board:

• Create a list of goals you’d like to achieve in the next year. In order to visualize your goals, first you need to know what they are. What do you want your ideal life to look like?

• Collect a bundle of old magazines with beautiful pictures. Our local library sells older magazines for $0.25 or ask your family/friends.

• Find pictures that represent your goals and inspire you. Focus on how the images make you feel.

• Make a collage out of your photos. Once you have collected enough photos, it’s time to make your vision board.

• Add motivational “affirmation words” that represent how you want to feel. For example, I want to feel joyful, powerful, fearless, loved, strong, healthy, loving and financially free.

• Take a few moments to contemplate your vision board every day. Place your vision board somewhere you can see it every day. Then, make time to look at it once or twice a day.

Don’t forget to write down when you created your vision board. It’s a good idea to create a new vision board each year. As you continue to grow, evolve and expand, your dreams/goals will too. Now, let’s reflect on the concept shifting your mindset for a moment. Hold your vision board in your hands and really internalize the future it represents. Read your daily affirmations and inspirational words aloud. Feel yourself in the future you have designed. Believe it is already yours. Be grateful for the good that is already present in your life. Acknowledge any goals you have already achieved and acknowledge the presence of God in your life.

If you don’t have a vision, you’re going to be stuck in what you know, and the only thing you know is what you’ve already seen. – Iyanla Vanzant

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

Your deepest struggle can, if you’re willing and open, produce your greatest strength. – Oprah Winfrey

• On a scale 1 – 10 my mental health is a ___________ because ___________________.

• What is happening in your mind right now? in your body? in your spirit?

• What does my vision for tomorrow look like? for 2019?

• What are the best choices I have made in life so far?

• What is one of life’s little pleasures that I appreciate?

• What challenged you today?

• What is something I need to be free from and surrender to God?

• Write about an area of your life you need more support in right now.

• Write about a goal or area of your life you need to be more committed to.

• List some new healthy habits you’d like to adapt in the new year.

As we look ahead to 2019, we’ve got gratitude on our minds. Continue to focus on your healthy living and fitness journey. I wish you a new year filled with joy, peace, hope, love, family, friends and laughter!

SHARE YOUR COMMENTS

Make your vision so clear that your fears become irrelevant. – Unknown Author

Becoming more self-aware provides an understanding of what we truly want in life. Now, it may not be easy, but as you can see, it is necessary, so you can make changes that will impact your life in a significant way. How do you plan to shift your mindset for the new year?

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

Journaling for Fitness

LaPorterDecember 15, 20182 Replies

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I believe in the person I want to become.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! This is the time of the year when everyone is trying to make New Year’s Resolutions. Instead of doing what seems to fail year after year, let’s plan to get healthy and fit by Journaling for Fitness. Keeping a fitness journal can be very helpful to most people. Studies show this easy tool helps reduce stress, builds positive thoughts and feelings, and helps us better understand what may be holding each of us back.

Never let a stumble in the road be the end of the journey.

BENEFITS OF JOURNALING

• Reduce stress – Expressive writing has been shown to lower stress levels.

• Improve your memory – Regular journal writing can improve your short-term memory.

• Stay organized – Keeping a journal such as a weight loss diary or fitness journal lets you maintain an organized record of your progress and journey.

JOURNALING TIPS

• Keep a regular writing schedule with few distractions so journaling becomes a habit.

• Don’t over think your written entries, just write honestly.

• Be creative. Add photos and positive quotes to enhance your written entries.

• Keep your journal private so you will not begin to write for others instead of yourself.

• Do not try to write perfect words, but instead just write what you think and feel.

• Reread your journal entry throughout your journey to see if you spot any patterns you want to change.

REASONS TO KEEP A FITNESS JOURNAL

Fitness means so much more than having a nice body. It means having a much better life.

Keeping a fitness journal can help you plan ahead to achieve your health and fitness goals, look back to see what’s working and what’s not, and gives you a clear idea of what you’re going to do for the day.

Here’s some additional reasons to keep a fitness journal:

• To clarify and focus your fitness goals.

• To break down goals into smaller, more manageable goals.

• To track progress towards goals.

• To plan future workouts.

• To record workouts done and progress.

• To plan exercise rest days.

• To gain a better understanding of exercise habits.

• To provide a factual record of successes.

As you can see, journaling is my safe place, my time to just write how I feel and scream on paper and no one will ever know. Let’s take a moment to define journal. A journal is a personal reflection of who you are, it’s a repository for all the things that interest and inspire you. A journal provides a safe environment to experiment with your writing style and technique. Simply put, when you write in a journal it becomes your personal journey of creative and heart felt thoughts. So, with that said, let’s start 2019 healthier and more organized. Plan to focus on your health and fitness goals by including a fitness journal in your daily routine. After all, your health and well-being must take priority, so you will be able to provide the necessary support to your family and friends.

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

When you feel like giving up, think about why you started.

• Today, I can honor my body by ___________________________.

• I am taking ___________________ actions to reach _____________________ goal.

• What are my fitness goals for the new year?

• What am I feeling today and what thoughts are creating that feeling?

• How can I love myself on today?

• What can I do to take better care of myself?

• What is one thing I know I really need to change?

• What is my vision for the next 3 months?

• List 5 to 7 new habits you’d like to adapt in the new year.

SHARE YOUR COMMENTS

You’ve always been beautiful. Now you’re just deciding to be healthier, fitter, faster and stronger. Remember that as you continue your healthier journey. Do you prefer setting goals or New Year’s Resolutions? What kinds of goals are you setting for yourself? What would be your New Year’s Resolution(s)? Do you plan to include a fitness journal in your daily routine? Why or why not?

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

Celebrate Life

LaPorterDecember 11, 20181 Reply

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The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. – Oprah Winfrey

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! This morning I pause to bless my day and it is a beautiful gift from God. Today, Iam celebrating my 45^th birthday and I wanted to celebrate life withyou. Now, what better way to celebrate than to write an inspirational blog postjust for you. We should always make each new day a celebration of life. Why youask? Well, it is quite simple. Every day is a fresh start. Always remember,what you celebrate expands to something bigger so celebrate life often. Throw kindness around like confetti.

Today, right in this present moment, I want to take time to reflect on my amazing life. I honestly look at where I am today, and I look at how I came to be here. I acknowledge the darkness and the light that shines within. Each day I focus on my vision of positive changes that I need to make in my life so that I may heal and grow in the most beautiful way possible. However, I do realize this journey has no rules, no right or wrong answers. I accept my journey for what it is, and I acknowledge that only I can do my healing work. I choose to feel good about myself each day. I am blessed. I am beautiful. I am brave. I am fearless. I am happy. I am bold. I am strong. I am enough. I aspire to be a giver. A giver of live, agiver of good vibes and a giver of strength. Today I fill my heart with love and embrace this wonderful, new life experience.

WAYS TO CELEBRATE LIFE

Life is what you celebrate. All of it. Even its end. – Joanne Harris

Every day do something that will lead you closer to God. (Read God’s Word, Pray, Meditate)

Thrive on happiness, a calm mind, good health and well-being. (Reading, Journaling, Exercising)

Have faith, be courageous, and dream big. (Believe, Trust and Hope)

Feed your soul spiritual food. (Read God’s Word, Attend Church, Listen to Gospel Music)

Strive for greatness and embrace change along the way. (Victorious)

Don’t procrastinate. Think positive and plan ahead. (Focus and Vision)

Love to no end, be grateful, choose joy and be kind. (Heart and Mind)

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve. (Strength and Wisdom)

Happiness is letting go of what you think your life is supposed to look like and celebrating it for everything that it is. – Mandy Hale

POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND AFFIRMATIONS

Your mind is a garden. Your thoughts are the seeds. You can grow flowers, or you can grow weeds.

One small positive thought in the morning can change your whole day.

There is no one better to be than myself. I am whole, and I accept who I am.

I believe in my goals and dreams. I have the power to make them come alive.

I forgive myself for my mistakes. My mistakes help me learn and grow.

My confidence grows when I step outside my comfort zone.

I am in charge of my life.

I am open and ready to learn.

I am capable of so much.

I am free to make my own choices.

I am perfect just the way I am.

Life isn’t meant to be lived perfectly…but merely to be lived. Boldly, wildly, beautifully, uncertainly, imperfectly, magically lived.

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

The biggest adventure you can take is to live the life of your dreams. – Oprah Winfrey

What is my happiest childhood memory?

How can I love myself today?

What is one of life’s little pleasures that I appreciate?

Who/What brings the most joy to my life?

When was the last time I felt truly at peace?

What do I need more of in my life?

What is something I would love to learn in my lifetime?

What are the best choices I have made in life so far?

What did I do today that brought me closer to my dream?

What is your vision for the next 3 months?

One lesson I learned today is ____________________.

When I am alone, I love to _______________________.

Today, I can honor my body by ___________________.

One thing I need to work on is ____________________.

One thing I need to let go is ______________________.

SHARE YOUR COMMENTS

You become what you believe. – Oprah Winfrey

Have courage to push harder than yesterday if you want a different tomorrow. Stay positive and be the best version of you. How do you plan to celebrate life? How do you feel about your life’s journey?

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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Season’s Greetings

LaPorterDecember 8, 20182 Replies

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When we give cheerfully and accept gratefully, everyone is blessed. – Maya Angelou

Something to Think About – Jesus knows the way because He is the way.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Season’s Greetings! Always remember, the greatest gift you can ever own is not found in the shops or under your Christmas tree. It is found in the hearts of your loving family and your true friends. This should be a special time of the year filled with happiness and peace. Finding time to share joy and positive memories with family and friends. Don’t forget about those who are less fortunate than us. Sacrifice your time by serving people in need at your local homeless shelter, foster care agencies, nursing homes or hospitals. Visit some of your neighbors and make sure that your elderly neighbors have healthy meals for the holidays as well. Also, don’t forget to send monetary donations to your favorite charities. Jesus isn’t just the reason for this season. He’s the reason for every single day of our life. Wishing all my family and friends a beautiful and blessed Holiday Season!

Today be thankful and think how rich you are. Your family is priceless, your time is gold, and your health is wealth. –Zig Ziglar

REASONS WHY JESUS IS THE REASON FOR THE SEASON

The beauty of Christmas is not in the presents but in His presence.

We should celebrate Jesus Christ because He is the ultimate gift to the world (Romans 5:15)

His love inspires people to be extra kind and giving this time of year that’s why you give special gifts to those you love and cherish (I John 3:16)

It’s a time of year where we can all be like little children, just like He taught (Matthew 18:2-5)

Christmas lights remind us that He is the Light of the world (John 8:12)

We can be of good cheer and full of hope because He came to save us (John 3:16)

Everybody loves when a baby is born, but none has changed the world as Jesus has (Matthew 1:21)

TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

Season’s Greetings. Happy Holidays. Be Kind. Be Thoughtful. Be Genuine. But most of all Be Thankful.

How do you plan to celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ during this Christmas holiday?

What action did you take today that brought you joy? What action did you take to bring joy to others?

How do you spread Christmas cheer?

How do you plan to serve others during the Christmas holiday and beyond?

When have you felt that you deserved something you wanted and couldn’t get it?

How could you remind yourself instead about all the blessings you already have?

What are you looking forward to this holiday season?

Who made you smile during the holiday season?

The holiday season makes me feel ____________________________.

Write about 4 emotions that come to your heart on Christmas day and why?

List 10 words that come to mind when you thinkof Jesus Christ. Ready, set, go!

SHARE YOUR COMMENTS

Merry Christmas. Tis the Season to be Jolly.

How do you plan to spend the holiday season? How do you plan to share some joy and holiday cheer to those around you? Do you have any family traditions or recipes that you share every year?

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

Spreading Joy

LaPorterDecember 4, 201826 Replies

Joy is the sound of love, the color of gratitude, and the song of hope. – Mary Davis

Something to Think About – The root of joy is gratefulness.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Today I choose joy. Joy is the echo of God’s life in us.

HOW TO CHOOSE JOY (www.flowingwithchange.com)

• Decide to choose joy.
• Daily affirm, “I feel joy today.”
• When other things seem to be more important like worrying, start over with the first one.

If we allow ourselves to be honest and feel the positive sensations inside, then we all could agree that life is simply bursting with joy. Joy grows from the inside, then you are allowed to spread it to others along your journey. Learning to live in the present moment is part of the path you take towards joy. No one makes you joyous, it comes from within. Simply put, it is your responsibility to choose joy throughout life. Now, you may be wondering how you choose joy from day to day? Well, you can choose joy by showing kindness, love and a grateful heart. In addition, there are some basic ways that you can spread joy to other people as well. It can be quite a rewarding experience to brighten up someone’s day by extending an act of kindness or just simply smiling at someone as you pass by. However, it is essential for you to bring joy to yourself first by empowering yourself and leading a happy and stress free life.

WAYS TO SPREAD JOY

• Be kind toward yourself. Remember, you cannot give what you don’t have.

• Smile. Don’t wait to be happy. Think of something good in your life, smile and see what happens.

• Transform your life by being optimistic and positive. Be helpful and give compliments to others.

• Surprise the people you love with a special gift or flowers just because.

• Say something good about someone or something. Be genuine and spread positive vibes and thoughts.

• Send a card, special note or letter to family, friends, co-workers or neighbors.

• Being authentic and courteous to others by saying words, such as “good morning” or “have a wonderful day”.

• Volunteer for a good cause where you can help others less fortunate than you are. For example, visit a nursing home, hospital, children’s group home or a homeless shelter.

You are free to think thoughts of worry or joy, and whatever you choose will attract the same kind back to you. Worry attracts worry. Joy attracts joy. – Rhonda Byrne

**5 WAYS TO FIGHT FOR JOY – (www.moreradiance.com)**

• Sing your favorite song
• Focus on the Good
• Smile throughout your day
• Surround yourself with joyful people
• Talk about joyful things

While living your best life, it is important to find joy along the journey. Don’t wait for perfect circumstances to experience the joy God wants to give in this moment. Remember, life doesn’t have to be perfect to be filled with joy. Begin to live life on your own terms or you will have other people sucking the joy out of you before you can spread it to anyone else. Find joy by walking in gratitude. Joy is contagious. Pass it on!

JOYFUL AFFIRMATIONS

Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, and sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy. – Thich Nhat Hahn

• Today I choose and welcome joy into my life.

• My day begins with gratitude and joy.

• I radiate joy and vitality throughout my life.

• I am worthy of love and joy.

• I am a joyful breeze entering a room.

• I am peaceful. I am joyful. I am thankful.

• I handle my own life with joy and ease.

• Life is filled with joy and abundance.

• Nourishing myself is a joyful experience.

• Today I spread love, joy and happiness.

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

Joy is the simplest form of gratitude. – Karl Barth

• What’s the role of gratitude in your life?

• What is one thing you’d like to improve in yourself?

• How frequently do you make time for self-care?

• What is your life motto?

• What needs to happen in your life to increase joy?

• When was the last time someone was wowed by something you did?

• What are some ways to give back during this holiday season and beyond?

SHARE YOUR COMMENTS

Joy is a net of love by which you can catch souls. – Mother Teresa

Sprinkle joy throughout your day. Shared joy is double joy which is incredible joy. Be joyful always. Is it difficult for you to spread joy to others? What kinds of challenges do you face concerning spreading joy?

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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