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11 Ways to Cope with Grief During the Holiday Season

11 Ways to Cope with Grief During the Holiday Season

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The loneliest walk you’ll ever take is the one down the road of grief. – Author Unknown

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Thought to Ponder – The “happy holidays” can be the least wonderful time of the year when we are mourning the death of a loved one.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! I am truly lost and broken on today. It has been 7 years since my beautiful mother left her earthly body to be in heaven. I realize deep in my heart that she is in a better place where she will no longer be in pain while struggling to breathe due to suffering from severe COPD. I watched her change from an independent, vibrant, and feisty woman to one who struggled to care for herself on a daily basis. Watching her go through this terrible transition honestly broke me down to my core. It hurt me so much because I could not do anything to help her overcome this awful illness that she had to endure. Instead of staying in this deep depression and dark state, I chose to create this safe space to inspire others through my gift of writing.

11 WAYS TO COPE WITH GRIEF DURING THE HOLIDAY SEASON

Missing you comes in waves, tonight I’m drowning. – Unknown Author

The holidays can be a time of sadness, pain, anger or dread for anyone dealing with an illness, grief or the loss of a loved one. Unfortunately, grief can also magnify the stress that is often already felt during the holidays. On the other hand, it’s important to note that it’s alright to have a good time in spite of your grief. Just allow yourself to feel whatever your heart is feeling in the moment and have your trusted support team established.

Here’s 11 effective ways to cope with grief during the holiday season:

  • Be patient with yourself and others – The grief process can be exhausting and overwhelming. Be patient with yourself and extend that same compassion and understanding to others.
  • Offer yourself some grace – Give yourself permission to feel whatever it is you’re feeling. If you feel sad, allow the tears to come; if you feel angry, allow yourself to vent some steam in a safe manner.
  • Be kind to yourself – Be sure to get plenty of rest and nourishment you need; do not take on more than you can handle; if you need to be alone, then honor that. If you desire the affection of others, seek it out.
  • Openly communicate your preferences to others – Be prepared to have an open dialogue with your family and friends to ensure everyone’s grief is acknowledged. This would be a great time to determine if the holiday tradition will continue or if everyone will create a new tradition.
  • Ask for and accept help – It’s okay to tell your loved ones the best way that they can help you during this difficult time. Remember, ask and you shall receive.
  • Set healthy boundaries – Give yourself permission to “do things differently” this year as needed and choose to participate only if you’re ready and feel comfortable.
  • Focus on what you can control – Observe your surroundings and relationships. Then, do what makes you happy.
  • Find a way to honor your memories – Create a special way to memorialize your loved one. For example, light a candle, arrange to have a prayer vigil, release balloons, plant a tree, or create a stone garden.
  • Find support – Sharing your feelings is often the best way to get through them and finding people you can talk to will help. Family and friends can be a great support during times of grief. If they are unavailable, seek professional help from a licensed therapist, a grief counselor or grief support group in your area.
  • Acknowledge your grief reactions – It’s important to acknowledge that this season you may look or feel different. You may encounter the inevitable waves of grief and/or you may be surprised by moments of love, joy or hope.
  • Make a difference in your community – Give to your favorite charity organization or purchase a gift for a needy child. Consider volunteering at a nursing home, hospital, hospice, children’s shelter or soup kitchen. This can help you cope with your grief by contributing to the greater good within your community.

Keep in mind, the best gift you can give anyone you love is that of being true to yourself and living your life to the fullest, even as you adjust to the loss of a loved one during the holidays.

GRIEF AFFIRMATIONS

Grief can be the garden of compassion. If you keep your heart open through everything, your pain can become your greatest ally in your life’s search for love and wisdom. – Rumi

In order for you to experience the power of grief affirmations, it is important for you to feed your spirit with love and include grief affirmations in your daily routine. For example, I choose to feel good about myself and life’s journey each day. Even when I am feeling sad or depressed, deep inside I aspire to be a giver. A giver of life, a giver of hope, and a giver of strength. This kind of thinking will help you overcome life’s challenges, such as grief, and improve your overall well-being.

Here’s some grief affirmations to help you get started on your journey to healing:

  • In my sadness, I have learned to love and care for myself.
  • I acknowledge that I am never alone in my grief.
  • I treat myself with kindness, respect and compassion.
  • I allow myself to feel my grief and then let go.
  • I take comfort in the memories of my loved one.
  • I am thankful and feel fortunate to have known you.
  • I give myself time and space to grieve, process my feelings, and heal.
  • I appreciate how much love and positivity my loved one brought to this world.
  • I am patience with my healing process.
  • I trust in the healing process and remain confident.
  • I will give myself time to heal and remain optimistic about the future.
  • I embrace my experiences and know acceptance is the first step to finding peace within.

Repeat the grief affirmations 1 to 2 times per day so it will be a constant reminder of what you are aiming for. Shift your focus and attention towards thoughts and feelings that are both positive and constructive. Start using these affirmations along with journal prompts today, and watch the quality of your life improve throughout your journey. Focus on positive changes and you will get positive results. With time, I know I will learn to live and express myself differently, but for now writing is my escape. Have a safe and wonderful holiday season!

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JOURNAL PROMPTS

I love journaling because it is a safe place for me to put my feelings and emotions into words, then put my words into action. Remember, journaling is your very own personal journey throughout life, your ups and downs, your successes, and failures. Journaling also allows for past reflection, future insight, and present surrender. Ready, set, write!

  • What is happening in your mind right now in this very moment?
  • What do you know to be true in this moment?
  • Why are you grieving?
  • What is your fondest memory of your loved one?
  • Why do you feel lost and broken on today?
  • What was your high and low for today?
  • What is one of life’s little pleasures that you appreciate?
  • What is something you would love to learn in your lifetime?
  • Some of your grief triggers are ___________________.

SHARING WITH ONE ANOTHER

 Let’s talk. Believe it or not, writing my feelings out in a journal or on my Renew Inspiration blog helps me sort out my thoughts. I’m able to release the hurt, loneliness, pain, anger, and heartache all in one place without judgment. Have you ever felt lost, lonely and broken throughout life? How do you cope with grief during the holidays? If so, how did you cope with your grief and pain? Do you plan to use grief affirmations to improve your life? If you haven’t done so already, do you plan to add affirmations and writing in your journal to your daily routine? Please share your thoughts in the comments section. I look forward to reading your feedback!

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow, and forever!

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Conquer Grief During the Holidays

Conquer Grief During the Holidays

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The loneliest walk you’ll ever take is the one down the road of grief. – Author Unknown

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! I don’t know about you, but I’ve found that the holidays can be a time of sadness, pain, anger or dread for anyone dealing with an illness, grief or the loss of a loved one. Let’s take a moment to identify some very important coping skills that will help you or someone you know conquer grief during the holidays.

    • Be kind and offer yourself some grace – Everyone has unique grief experiences. Give yourself permission to feel whatever it is you’re feeling. If you feel sad, allow the tears to come; if you feel angry, allow yourself to vent some steam in a safe manner.
    • Set realistic expectations for yourself – Remind yourself that this year is different. Be sure to get plenty of rest and nourishment. Do not take on more than you can handle.
    • Ask for and accept help – It’s okay to tell your loved ones the best way that they can help you during this difficult time. If you desire the affection of others, seek it out. Remember, ask and you shall receive.
    • Set healthy boundaries with family and friends – Allow yourself time to grieve and understand what you’re feeling inside. Decide new holiday routines when you’re ready and feel comfortable.
    • Surround yourself with people who love and support you – Sharing your feelings is often the best way to get through them and finding people you can talk to will help.
    • Write journal entries to express yourself – Don’t be afraid to express yourself and tune into your grief emotions while writing journal entries.
    • Make a difference in your community – Give to your favorite charity organization, purchase a gift for a needy child or consider volunteering at a homeless shelter. This can help you cope with your grief by contributing to the greater good within your community.

GREAT IDEAS TO HONOR YOUR LOVED ONE

In this hollow I do grieve for all the things that cease to be. – Angie Weiland-Crosby

Choose to create a special way to memorialize your loved one this holiday season. Here’s some great ideas you can use to honor your loved one and keep their memories alive:

  • Light a candle.
  • Arrange to have a prayer vigil.
  • Create an online tribute.
  • Make a memorial ornament, wreath or holiday decoration.
  • Share your favorite story, quote or poem.
  • Release balloons or sky lanterns.
  • Plant a tree and create a stone garden.
  • Visit your loved one’s special place.
  • Recite a special prayer and choose to have a moment of silence.
  • Make a donation to a charity of your choice.

Keep in mind, the best gift you can give anyone you love is that of being true to yourself and living your life to the fullest, even as you adjust to the loss of a loved one during the holidays. With time, patience, and the right coping skills I am certain you will conquer grief during this holiday season and beyond!

PRAYER

God of love and mercy, embrace all those whose hearts today overflow with grief, unanswered questions and such a sense of loss. Immerse them in your love and lead them through this darkness into your arms, and light. Grant them space to express their tears. Hold them close through the coming days. Amen.

JOURNAL PROMPTS

Missing you comes in waves, tonight I’m drowning. – Unknown Author

I love journaling because it is a safe place for me to put my feelings and emotions into words, then put my words into action. Remember, journaling is your very own personal journey throughout life, your ups and downs, your successes, and failures. Journaling also allows for past reflection, future insight, and present surrender. Ready, set, write!

  • Why are you grieving?
  • What is your fondest memory of your loved one?
  • What are some of your grief triggers?
  • Why do you feel lost and broken?
  • What was your high and low on today?
  • What do you know to be true in this moment?
  • How do you prefer to honor your loved one during the holiday season?

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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Holiday Cheer

Holiday Cheer

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Wishing you a season of gladness, a season of cheer, and to top it all off, a wonderful New Year. – Unknown Author

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Special Thought – May the simple joys of Christmas warm your heart, fill your home, and last a lifetime.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Season’s Greetings and Merry Christmas! Always remember, the greatest gift you can ever own is not found in the shops or under your Christmas tree. It is found in the hearts of your loving family and your true friends. This should be a special time of the year filled with happiness, peace, and holiday cheer.

Today be thankful and think how rich you are. Your family is priceless, your time is gold, and your health is wealth. – Zig Ziglar

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WAYS TO SPREAD HOLIDAY CHEER

May peace be your gift at Christmas and your blessing all year through. – Unknown Author

To begin with, holiday cheer can be defined as the comfort or encouragement one feels during the holiday season. Holiday cheer puts you in a good mood and put a happy tune in your heart. If we allow ourselves to be honest and feel the positive sensations inside, then we all could agree that life is always bursting with holiday cheer.

Here’s some ways to spread holiday cheer:

• Be kind toward yourself. Remember, you cannot give what you don’t have.

• Smile. Don’t wait to be happy. Think of something good in your life, smile and see what happens.

• Transform your life by being optimistic and positive. Be helpful and give compliments to others.

• Surprise the people you love with a special gift or flowers just because.

• Say something good about someone or something. Be genuine and spread positive vibes and thoughts.

• Send a card, special note or letter to family, friends, co-workers or neighbors.

• Being authentic and courteous to others by saying words, such as “good morning” or “have a wonderful day”.

• Volunteer for a good cause where you can help others less fortunate than you are. For example, visit a nursing home, hospital, children’s group home or a homeless shelter.

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WAYS TO RELIEVE STRESS DURING THE HOLIDAY SEASON

Warmest thoughts and best wishes for a wonderful Holiday and a Happy New Year. – Unknown Author

On the other hand, while living your best life, it is important to find ways to relieve stress during the holiday season. Don’t wait for perfect circumstances to experience a stress-free atmosphere.

Here’s some ways to relieve stress during the holiday season:

• Take calm-down breaks to meditate, read a good book or just do nothing.

• Stay active and get moving by exercising, doing yoga, walking or trying a new class at the gym.

• Be generous and kind by volunteering at the local shelter/food bank or donating money to your favorite charity.

• Smile and laugh often by watching holiday movies, playing boardgames or enjoying quality time with family and friends.

• Plan a YOU day by getting a massage, manicure, pedicure or getting a new hair style.

As I stated before, feeling holiday cheer grows from the inside, then you are allowed to spread it to others along your journey. Learning to live in the present moment is part of the path you take towards holiday cheer. Don’t let the holidays become something you dread. Instead, take steps to prevent stress that can descend during the holidays. It can be quite a rewarding experience to brighten up someone’s day by extending an act of kindness or just simply smiling at someone as you pass by. However, it is essential for you to bring holiday cheer to yourself which leads to a happy and stress-free life.

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JOURNAL PROMPTS

May peace be your gift at Christmas and your blessing all year through! – Anon

Journaling is a powerful way to process events in your life, build self-awareness, get more clarity, and keep yourself on track. Journaling also allows for past reflection, future insight, and present surrender. Keep in mind that this is a journey and everyone takes their own path. Ready, set, write!

• What action did you take today that spread holiday cheer?

• How do you plan to serve others during the Christmas holiday and beyond?

• Who made you smile during the holiday season?

• Write about 4 emotions that come to your heart on Christmas day and why?

• List 10 words that come to mind when you think of holiday cheer. Ready, set, go!

• How frequently do you make time for self-care?

• What are some ways to give back during this holiday season and beyond?

• How do you plan to reduce stress in your life?

TIME TO SHARE & COMMENT

Let’s talk. Share your thoughts in the comments section. I look forward to reading your feedback! How do you plan to spend the holiday season? How do you plan to share some holiday cheer to those around you? Do you have any family traditions or recipes that you share every year?

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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Amazing Black Friday Sales

Amazing Black Friday Sales

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KEEP CALM – It’s an add to cart kind of day! – Unknown Author

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! In the United States, many of us have already eaten our Thanksgiving meals and delicious desserts. If you love to catch great deals while shopping online, then this time of the year is just for you. Drum roll please — It’s Black Friday Sales 2019!

This blog post will help you have the best shopping experience ever and if you make any purchases using the links below, I will receive a small commission that will help support my blogging efforts so it’s a win-win.

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GREAT DEALS FOR BLOGGERS

Even though there are many free websites available to choose from, bloggers should consider using the following:

BLUEHOST

Bluehost is kicking their Black Friday Sales into high gear from 11/28 – 12/2/19. These deals are great for any bloggers who need a hosting server to take your blog or website to the next level:

• Shared hosting starting at $2.65/month for 36 months
• 50% off select Domains
• Up to 60% off Office 365
• 50% off Domain Privacy & Protection

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WORDPRESS

WordPress sale dates are from 11/29 – 12/2/19. In addition, WordPress provides benefits, such as design plans for any budget, ability to customize your domain, editor features to build a blog or a full website, and awesome customer support. Here’s some of the great deals:

• 40% off all themes
• 20% off eCommerce plans
• 40% off extensions at WooCommerce.com

Use coupon code: BLACKCYBER2019

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RETAILERS – TARGET & AMAZON

TARGET

Now, on to regular shopping at my favorite two retailers – Target and Amazon. I don’t know about you, but I love shopping at Target. Target is the eighth largest retailer in the United States. Whether you enjoy the big crowds in the stores or prefer ordering online from the comfort of your own home, take a moment to check out these great Black Friday deals from 11/28 – 11/30/19 that you cannot afford to miss:

• Free 2-day shipping
• Target Circle offers
• Save 5% with your RedCard
• Black Friday Doorbusters
• Up to 50% off selected toys
• BOGO 50% off home, clothing, shoes & accessories

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AMAZON

On the other hand, Amazon is the world’s largest online retailer that sell a wide variety of consumer goods, electronic devices, and digital media. There are so many awesome Black Friday deals that I could not capture them all in this blog post. Instead, I chose to capture some of the best Amazon programs that you should take advantage of:

PRIME MEMBERSHIP

Amazon Prime is a paid subscription service offered by Amazon that gives users access to products and services that would otherwise be unavailable, or available at a higher cost, to the typical Amazon customer. The standard annual membership cost is $119/year for regular customers and the student annual membership cost is $59/year.

Here’s a list of some Prime Membership benefits:

• Free 30-day trial membership (you can cancel at any time)
• Exclusive deals and discounts
• Free two-day delivery for eligible items
• Scheduled delivery options
• Free delivery on restaurant orders
• Unlimited photo storage
• Streaming ad free music and video options
• Watching your favorite movies and TV shows
• Free release-date delivery on new video games, books, music, and movies
• Same-day shipping for orders over $35 of eligible items (items must be ordered before noon to receive it by 9 p.m.)

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KINDLE UNLIMITED

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MUSIC UNLIMITED

Music Unlimited is a standalone subscription that has a monthly membership fee of $9.99/month. Unlimited access to any songs, on demand ad-free, and hands-free listening with Alexa. Special promotion 4 months for $0.99 – Cancel anytime.

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PRIME BOOK BOX

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Here’s some of the Prime book box benefits:

• Each box contains 2 hardcover books or 4 board books.
• Pick your preferences and tell them about your reader.
• Preview and decide which books you want.
• Skip a box any time.
• Modify or cancel the subscription at any time.

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TIME TO SHARE & COMMENT

Let’s talk. Do you take advantage of Black Friday sales? What is your favorite store? Do you prefer shopping in the physical store or online? Share your thoughts in the comments section. I look forward to reading your feedback!

Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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Thanksgiving Reflection

Thanksgiving Reflection

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My life is not perfect, but I am thankful for everything I have. – Unknown Author

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I AM THANKFUL

There is always something to be thankful for. – Unknown Author

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family! I don’t know about you, but I have so much to be thankful for on today. Life is better when you smile from time to time, cry a little, laugh a lot, and are thankful for everything you’ve got.

Here’s just a few things that I am thankful for:

• I am thankful to still be in the land of the living.

• I am thankful for salvation and Jesus dying on the cross.

• I am thankful for my family and friends.

• I am thankful for our lovely home.


• I am thankful for reliable transportation.

• I am thankful for having a good portion of health and strength.

• I am thankful for having food to eat and clean water to drink.

• I am thankful for my Renew Inspiration blog.

• I am thankful for all of the support you give me throughout the year.

There is always something to be thankful for. Would you agree? Yes, even when we are in the midst of a storm in our life, we have to hold our head up and thank God for giving us the strength to overcome the many obstacles that come and go throughout our personal journey called life.

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TIME FOR REFLECTION

Be kind. Be thoughtful. Be genuine, but most of all be thankful. – Unknown Author

Now, I am going to ask you to step out of your comfort zone. Go to a quiet place, clear your mind, and make sure you have a pen/pencil and a notebook. Throughout life it’s important to make time for reflection and what better time to start than Thanksgiving Day. Take a deep breath and free your soul before assessing your own spiritual wellness.

Here’s the questions that you need to ask yourself:

• What gives my life meaning and purpose?

• What give me hope?

• How do I get through tough times? Where do I find comfort?

• Am I tolerant of other people’s views about life issues?

• Do I make attempts to expand my awareness of different ethnic, racial and religious groups?

• Do I make time for relaxation in my day?

• Do my values guide my decisions and actions?

My suggestion is to gather all of the questions at one time, but take your time to answer them. Then, it is important for you to be open and honest with yourself as well. There is no right or wrong way to complete this task. Finally, you need to re-visit your questions and answers from time to time.

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WAYS TO COPE DURING THE HOLIDAY SEASON

When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate. When life is bitter, say thank you and grow. – Unknown Author

I am thankful for the gift of life and for those I am blessed to share this wonderful life with. I take nothing for granted during the holidays because I realize this can be a difficult and stressful time for most people for many reasons, such as the loss of a loved one, broken relationships, unemployment, depression, anxiety, just to name a few. Unfortunately, this is me in a nutshell. Despite experiencing all of these things in my life at one point or another, I am still thankful for all of it.

Everything that I have gone through has helped mold and shape me into the beautiful and smart woman I am today. Every single struggle and setback I encountered has made me a stronger, wiser and humble person. We have to humble ourselves in life, so we can learn from life lessons. Believe it or not, if I would not have gone through so much pain and heartache in life, my Renew Inspiration blog would not exist today.

Here’s some ways to help you cope during the holiday season:

• Pray and meditate to help clear your mind and uplift your spirit.

• Practice journaling often to express yourself. Remember, written expressions open doors to your soul.

• Read inspirational blogs, books or quotes to help boost self-confidence.

• Plan quiet time alone to gather your thoughts and feelings.

• Be honest with yourself and others. Never hold back how you feel. Open communication is healthy.

• Practice yoga or do stretches to help strengthen your body and help you relax.

• Exercise daily to move your body and boost energy.

• Participate in therapy sessions with a professional therapist for encouragement and support.

I am truly blessed with everything I need. I am working hard toward everything I want. And most of all, I appreciate and thank God for what I have. Thank you for your part in my journey! I appreciate you taking the time to read my Renew Inspiration blog, writing thoughtful and caring comments, and most of all, taking that leap of faith and subscribing to my blog. Take a moment and share my blog so that others may be blessed as well.

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SELF-REFLECTION & JOURNAL PROMPTS

The most beautiful way to start and end the day is with a grateful heart. – Unknown Author

Journaling is a powerful way to process events in your life, build self-awareness, get more clarity, and keep yourself on track. Journaling also allows for past reflection, future insight, and present surrender. Now, close your eyes and clear your mind. Grab your pen/pencil. Open your journal or notebook. Ready, set, write!

• What are you thankful for and why?

• What was the best thing that happened today?

• What immediately comes to mind when you think of your blessings?

• What accomplishments in your life have brought you most happiness?

• What hard parts of your life may contain hidden blessings?

• How can I make more space in my life for the things I love and enjoy?

• What can I do to nurture my spirit more throughout the week?

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TIME TO SHARE & COMMENT

Let’s talk. So, grab your journal and write down at least 10 things that you are thankful for. As the day goes by, review your list and add to it as you see fit. What are some of your obstacles throughout this process? Share your thoughts in the comments section. I look forward to reading your feedback!




Believe in yourself today, tomorrow and forever!

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Ways to Celebrate Halloween

Ways to Celebrate Halloween

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Shadows of a thousand years rise again unseen, voices whisper in the trees tonight is Halloween. – Unknown Author

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Well, I have to admit, I did not do very well with the Blogtober Challenge that I started on October 1. Even with planning and having the right intentions, I just could not blog as much as I wanted to. My husband is still recovering from his foot surgery, I’ve been working during the week, and helping my boys with homework. Despite all of that, I could not end October without writing a Halloween blog post.

It’s that time of year again when the leaves are falling from the trees, the days become shorter, and the temperatures begin to drop. When fall arrives we know Halloween shortly follows. I have to admit, I have never been excited about Halloween, but it was always nice to go trick-or-treating as a family. However, as you get older, trick-or-treating becomes very old and boring.

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Nowadays, Halloween can get very expensive with buying costumes, buying candy/treats, and going to various Halloween parties. Depending on your family size and the ages of your children, you may have to get a little creative when planning to celebrate Halloween.

Here’s some family-friendly ways to celebrate Halloween without buying costumes or going out to trick-or-treat:

• Decorate your house with fall colors, festive leaves, pumpkins, and wreaths.

• Go to a pumpkin patch to select your favorite pumpkin(s).

• Visit a local farm or park to enjoy hay rides, bonfires, corn mazes, and haunted houses.

• Have a pumpkin painting or carving party with a twist. Encourage the participants to be as creative as possible when decorating the pumpkins.

• Make pumpkin bread, popcorn balls, or any Halloween themed snacks as a family. Then, watch your favorite scary classic movies as a family.

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• Host an orange and black party. Ask all guests to wear orange and black. Serve a variety of orange and black snacks/drinks.

• Enjoy a big bonfire outside in the backyard and tell scary stories.

• Visit a local cider mill to enjoy warm cider, donuts, live music, and apples.

• Enjoy time as a family doing spooky crafts, playing board games, and eating sweet treats.

• Visit a church that’s hosting Harvest Night which normally provides a safe, but fun environment for the children.

Remember, Halloween is just a bunch of hocus pocus for some and for others it’s a time to have lots of fun. Have a safe and Happy Halloween, in whatever ways you choose to celebrate!

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SELF-REFLECTION & JOURNAL PROMPTS

A touch of magic; A pinch of fright; Cast a spell this festive night. – Rusty Fischer

Journaling is a powerful way to process events in your life, build self-awareness, get more clarity, and keep yourself on track. Journaling also allows for past reflection, future insight, and present surrender. Now, close your eyes and clear your mind. Grab your pen/pencil. Open your journal or notebook. Ready, set, write!

• My favorite activity to do around Halloween is ____________________.

• I enjoy celebrating Halloween because _______________________.

• One of my fears is ________________________.

• My favorite scary movie of all time is ___________________________.

• Do you prefer to trick-or-treat or go to a Halloween party?

AMAZON RESOURCE #3 – Halloween Books

TIME TO SHARE & COMMENT

Wicked never looked so cute. – Unknown Author

Let’s talk. Do you celebrate Halloween? If yes, what is your favorite way to celebrate Halloween? Please share your thoughts in the comments section. I look forward to reading your feedback!



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Amazon Gift Ideas

Amazon Gift Ideas

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The best gifts are the ones you give. – Unknown Author

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Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Are you looking for a special and thoughtful gift to give to someone on Father’s Day? Well, look no further. You’ve come to the right place! Today’s blog post is two-fold. First, I wanted to do something different while trying to meet my Amazon 3-sale requirement so I can remain an active member in the Amazon Associates Affiliate Program. Second, I wanted to put together some Amazon Gift Ideas for you right before Father’s Day. As a bonus, I also included a link for Gift Cards and a link to Oprah’s Book Club to give you some summer reading suggestions. Believe it or not, you can use the links below to shop from the comfort of your own home. So, what are you waiting for? Let’s read and shop together!

AMAZON GIFT IDEAS / LIMITED-TIME OFFERS

Here’s some of the benefits for shopping online via Amazon.com:

• You can shop from the comfort of your own home.

• Products are in stock and ready to ship.

• Free shipping for orders over $25 and fast delivery.

• 30-day free trial of Amazon Prime (2-day shipping, free same day delivery in select metro areas, exclusive access to movies, TV shows, music, original audio series, and Kindle books).

Note – After your free trial, Amazon Prime is just $12.99 per month, but you cancel at any time.

Gift #1 – Save $3 on Etekcity Digital Body Weight Bathroom Scale, Tempered Tough, Stability Suspension, Lb/Kg Unit Conversion, Low Battery Indication, Overload Protection

Gift #2 – Save $10 on Fire TV Stick with Alexa Voice Remote, Streaming Media Player

Gift #3 – Save $20 on Echo Dot (3rd Gen) – Smart Speaker with Alexa, Voice control your smart home, Connect with others, Always ready to help

Gift #4 – Save $20 on the Fire HD 8 Tablet, Vibrant HD display, Up to 10 hours of mixed-use battery life, 16 or 32 GB of internal storage, Hands-free with Alexa

Gift #5 – Save 25% on the Hot Shot Grill by Charles Oakley, Heavy Duty Die-Cast Aluminum, Extra-large grill surface, Removable parts for easy cleaning, Non-stick interchangeable grill & griddle plates

Gift #6 – Save 39% on the Echo Show (2nd Gen) – Charcoal Bundle + Free Echo Dot Charcoal + Adjustable Stand

Gift #7 – Up to 40% off on Black+Decker products

Gift #8 – Gift Cards or Amazon.com eGift Card options

Gift # 9 – Oprah’s Book Club / Summer Reading Suggestions, Bringing passionate readers together to discuss inspiring stories, Kindle, Paperback, Hardcover, Audible Audiobook

Tayari Jones – An American Marriage – Stunning epic love story of racial injustice filled with breathtaking twists and turns.

Anthony Ray Hinton – The Sun Does Shine – A powerful story of hope, love, justice, and the power of reading by a man who spent thirty years on death row for a crime he didn’t commit.

Delia Owens – Where The Crawdads Sing – A story of resiliency, survival, hope, love, loss, loneliness, desperation, prejudice, determination, and strength.

Michelle Obama – Becoming – An intimate and inspiring Memoir written by the former First Lady of the United States of America. She writes about how her experiences from her childhood in Chicago helped guide her life path.

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Lost and Broken

Lost and Broken

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Missing you comes in waves, tonight I’m drowning. – Unknown Author

Special Thought – Happiness is my choice. Decide every morning that you are in a good mood.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! I am truly lost and broken on today. It has been 3 years since my beautiful mother left her earthly body to be in heaven. I find myself repeating this quote from time to time:

A million words would not bring her back, I know because I’ve tried. Neither would a million tears, I know because I cried. – Unknown Author

I realize deep in my heart that she is in a better place where she will no longer be in pain while struggling to breathe due to her failing lungs. My mother suffered from severe COPD for about 5 years or so. I watched her change from an independent, vibrant, and feisty woman to one who struggled to care for herself on a daily basis. Watching her go through this terrible transition honestly broke me down to my core. It hurt me so much because I could not do anything to help her overcome this obstacle, this awful illness, that she had to endure. This whole experience left me totally lost and broken even until this day.

If I had to find a happy place throughout this experience, I would have to say that my mother and I grew closer to one another. We had a special bond that could never be broken. Even that last night together, I was able to bathe her and pray for her. That was a special moment that will forever be in my heart. She smiled as I left her room that night. I smiled back as I said, “I love you mom.” Not knowing that was the last time I would see her alive. My positive memories will never replace her presence in my life, seeing her warm smile or hearing her laughter. Honestly, I feel her spirit every day and she visit me in dreams often. Sometimes the dreams seem so real.

Losing our loved ones is hard and painful but losing them during the holidays is even harder. Believe it or not, writing my feelings out in a journal helps me sort out my thoughts. I’m able to release the hurt, loneliness, pain, anger, and heartache all in one place without judgment. With time, I know I will learn to live and express myself differently, but for now writing is my first choice throughout this lost and broken journey.

My mouth says, “I’m okay.” My fingers text, “I’m fine.” My heart says, I’m broken.” – Unknown Author

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AFFIRMATIONS – (aimhappy.com)

• Trust the process/journey.

• Peace and comfort are my main priority.

• I am open to this moment.

• I am connected to what really matters in my life.

• I am a living, breathing example of the kind of world I want to live in.

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TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

• Why do I feel lost and broken on today?

• What do I know to be true in this moment?

• What do I want more of in my life?

• What am I ready to let go of?

• What was my high and low today?

• What questions am I facing right now?

• When was the last time I felt truly at peace?


SHARE YOUR COMMENTS

Have you ever felt lost and broken throughout life? Have you ever lost a loved one during the holidays? If so, how did you cope with your grief and pain? Please share your life experiences in the comment section.
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Season’s Greetings

Season’s Greetings

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When we give cheerfully and accept gratefully, everyone is blessed.  – Maya Angelou

 Something to Think About – Jesus knows the way because He is the way.

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Season’s Greetings! Always remember, the greatest gift you can ever own is not found in the shops or under your Christmas tree. It is found in the hearts of your loving family and your true friends. This should be a special time of the year filled with happiness and peace. Finding time to share joy and positive memories with family and friends. Don’t forget about those who are less fortunate than us. Sacrifice your time by serving people in need at your local homeless shelter, foster care agencies, nursing homes or hospitals. Visit some of your neighbors and make sure that your elderly neighbors have healthy meals for the holidays as well.  Also, don’t forget to send monetary donations to your favorite charities. Jesus isn’t just the reason for this season. He’s the reason for every single day of our life. Wishing all my family and friends a beautiful and blessed Holiday Season!

Today be thankful and think how rich you are. Your family is priceless, your time is gold, and your health is wealth. –Zig Ziglar

REASONS WHY JESUS IS THE REASON FOR THE SEASON

The beauty of Christmas is not in the presents but in His presence.

  • We should celebrate Jesus Christ because He is the ultimate gift to the world (Romans 5:15)
  • His love inspires people to be extra kind and giving this time of year that’s why you give special gifts to those you love and cherish (I John 3:16)
  • It’s a time of year where we can all be like little children, just like He taught (Matthew 18:2-5)
  • Christmas lights remind us that He is the Light of the world (John 8:12)
  • We can be of good cheer and full of hope because He came to save us (John 3:16)
  • Everybody loves when a baby is born, but none has changed the world as Jesus has (Matthew 1:21)

TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

Season’s Greetings. Happy Holidays. Be Kind. Be Thoughtful. Be Genuine. But most of all Be Thankful.

  • How do you plan to celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ during this Christmas holiday?
  • What action did you take today that brought you joy? What action did you take to bring joy to others?
  • How do you spread Christmas cheer?
  • How do you plan to serve others during the Christmas holiday and beyond?
  • When have you felt that you deserved something you wanted and couldn’t get it?
  • How could you remind yourself instead about all the blessings you already have?
  • What are you looking forward to this holiday season?
  • Who made you smile during the holiday season?
  • The holiday season makes me feel ____________________________.
  • Write about 4 emotions that come to your heart on Christmas day and why?
  • List 10 words that come to mind when you thinkof Jesus Christ. Ready, set, go!

SHARE YOUR COMMENTS

Merry Christmas. Tis the Season to be Jolly.

How do you plan to spend the holiday season? How do you plan to share some joy and holiday cheer to those around you? Do you have any family traditions or recipes that you share every year?

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Coping with Grief

Coping with Grief

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Grief never ends…But it changes. It’s a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith…It is the price of love. – Author Unknown

Something to Think About – Whenever grief tries to steal the beauty of your memories just remember love never dies.

In Loving Memory
of
Rosalynn K. Russell
November 29, 1942 – December 19, 2015

Coping with Grief, Mother
Rosalynn K. Russell

Welcome back to Renew Inspiration! Today’s blog post is dedicated to my late mother, Rosalynn K. Russell. Happy Birthday, Mom! Today, would’ve been her 76th birthday! I miss her presence, her smile, her touch, her laughter. I miss everything about her. She was a small woman in stature but had a big heart and was willing to help anyone in need. November and December are the most difficult months for me while I continue to cope with grief and the loss of my beautiful and loving mother.

The loneliest walk you’ll ever take is the one down the road of grief. – Author Unknown

Unfortunately, the holidays can be a time of sadness, pain, anger or dread for anyone dealing with an illness, grief or the loss of a loved one. Unfortunately, grief can also magnify the stress that is often already a part of the holidays.

Here’s some effective ways to cope with grief during the holidays:

• Offer yourself some grace – Give yourself permission to feel whatever it is you’re feeling. If you feel sad, allow the tears to come; if you feel angry, allow yourself to vent some steam.

• Be kind to yourself – Be sure to get plenty of rest and nourishment you need; do not take on more than you can handle; if you need to be alone, then honor that. If you desire the affection of others, seek it out.

• Ask for and accept help – It’s okay to tell your loved ones the best way that they can help you during this difficult time.

• Find support – Sharing your feelings is often the best way to get through them and finding people you can talk to will help. Family and friends can be a great support during times of grief. If they are unavailable, seek help from a grief support group in your area.

• Make a difference – Give to your favorite charity organization or purchase a gift for a needy child. Consider volunteering at a nursing home, hospital, hospice, children’s shelter or soup kitchen. This can help you cope with your grief by contributing to the greater good within your community.

During the holidays, it’s alright to have a good time in spite of your grief. Just allow yourself to feel whatever your heart is feeling in the moment. The best gift you can give anyone you love is that of being true to yourself and living your life to the fullest, even as you adjust to the loss of a loved one.

Healing unfolds in its own time; it doesn’t look to the clock or calendar for direction. – Jen, aimhappy.com



TIME FOR REFLECTION – JOURNAL PROMPTS

I am no longer who I was. Loss has reshaped me. – Benjamin Allen

Journaling is a powerful tool for coping with grief and loss.

• Why are you grieving?

• What is your fondest memory?

• When alone, what do you do?

• What season holds the most memories?

• The hardest time of day is ___________________.

• My support system includes __________________.

• I really need more of _____________________.

• I am really having a hard time coping with _____________________.

• I find it most difficult when ______________________.

• Some of my grief triggers are ________________________.
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How do you cope with grief? Do you allow yourself to feel during this most difficult time?

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